Into the A+ Advice Box #16: Your Ex Is Getting Married, Closure is a Myth and More!

Welcome to the 16th edition of Into the A+ Advice Box, in which we answer advice questions from A+ members who submitted their questions into our A+ ask box because they wanted their questions answered in a space that is not accessible by Google, their mom, their ex, etc. (No guarantees regarding your ex, however.) Previously, we have included such questions in our epic Some Answers to Some Questions You Have Been Asking Us, and in most cases that is still the plan. But some questions were a lot longer or more in-depth and deserved their own place in the sun. We're doing this column TWICE a month, now.

We solicited answers from the whole team, so let’s dive in!

Q1:

I grew up evangelical Christian and my parents are still fairly devout and conservative. We've been through some very rocky moments in our relationship, particularly when I told them I was no longer Christian, when I came out as bisexual, and when I told them I was practicing polyamory. Not surprisingly, their r...

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