A+ Roundtable: Sex With an Ex

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Having sex with an ex-partner definitely falls under the category of things you can absolutely do. We're not here to shame consenting adults for doing what they want to, amongst themselves. However, it also falls under the category of things that you don't have to do just because you can. We make jokes about not texting our exes for reasons, and many of those reasons are very good. After all, you broke up.Still, I would really love to hear from someone who's never texted an ex. If you are a person of iron boundaries who's never texted your ex, PLEASE DO tell me in the comments. I would love to hear from you! So, presuming that a number of us have, in fact, had sex with our exes, I asked the team t...

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