A+ Advice: The Crushing Loneliness of Chronic Illness

Into the A+ Advice Box runs twice a month on the first and third Fridays where A+ members can ask us advice questions about just about anything and receive those answers anonymously. It's one of the ways we say thank you to our members! Curious about A+? It starts at just $4 a month or $30 a year and proceeds go to support everything we do at Autostraddle. And if you'd like to donate a membership to someone who can't afford one right now, or if that sounds like you and you're interested in a free membership, we encourage you to check out our A+ Gift Membership Pool!

Sometimes, we get questions from members where the answers could be whole posts in and of themselves! This is one of those questions.

I've had long covid for over eighteen months and it severely limits what I can do. I can't travel far from home and can't be out for more than a few hours on a good day. I am making extremely slow progress but don't honestly expect to ever recover fully. I don't know when or if ...

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Heather Hogan

Heather Hogan is an Autostraddle senior editor who lives in New York City with her wife, Stacy, and their cackle of rescued pets. She's a member of the Television Critics Association, the Gay and Lesbian Entertainment Critics Association, and a Rotten Tomatoes Tomatometer critic. You can also find her on Twitter, and Instagram.

Heather has written 1247 articles for us.