This week I tricked you all into thinking you were GETTING advice, but mostly you were just helping me me calm down during my own existential crisis! And here you thought I was a do-gooder!!
In all seriousness, though, we had a great chat about the fact that we never actually ever stop changing and evolving, and that a lot of the "benchmarks" we seek are complicated and even fabricated ideas that need a lot of sifting-through to best understand.
ALSO WE HUNG OUT WITH MY NEW BABY CAT SAM.
Join me and Kate Leth on Monday July 17th, 3pm Pacific, when we will be talking about Bisexuality! Again! NEVER TOO MUCH BISEXUALITY!
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