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Weekender: Miami and Miami Beach Pride

I spent five days in Miami and Miami Beach, and it was not nearly enough! Here are some things I checked out and would recommend.

By Rachel| May 3, 2019 | 12 Comments
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Weekender: Jamestown, CA and Big Trees State Park

In and around Jamestown you can see 2000-year-old trees, llamas, an allegedly haunted B&B, and a lot of stuff that’s generally cute as fuck — it’s a great place to do the lesbian thing of taking a weekend trip with someone you’ve been dating for five days!

By Abeni Jones| February 9, 2018 | 11 Comments
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Weekenders: Allyn Mansion in Lake Geneva, Wisconsin

In our first episode of a brand-new travel column, we go to a little town in Wisconsin and stay in a very big mansion on a very tall bed.

By Riese| February 25, 2016 | 34 Comments
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Not Your Heteronormative Weekend Getaway: The Survival Guide

Qwear’s Sonny and Champagne just got back from Ptown’s “Ladies” Weekend and have a pocketful of tips – fashion and otherwise – for your next queer weekend away.

By Qwear| June 27, 2013 | 23 Comments
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Queer Girl Mini Guide: Miami, Florida

A lot has changed in Miami the last decade. Is it a new gay getaway hotspot? I took a visit, snapped a lot of photos, rode a vespa, visited a lot of restaurants and drank too much alcohol so I could find out.

By Alex| August 30, 2012 | 21 Comments
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Autofocus! Goes to Ithaca: Travel Tips for Lesbians in Love

Our photoblogger Robin and her girlfriend Carlytron, aka the cutest couple ever, travel to Gorges Ithaca and a wedding in the Berkshires provide some helpful hints for traveling with your lesbian lover.

By Robin| July 23, 2009 | 34 Comments
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