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Your 2018 Gal Pal Roundup: The 8 Couples(?!) Who Won 20GayTeen

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By Stef| December 31, 2018 | 11 Comments
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Last night Queen Sugar concluded its third season. To mark the occasion, we got together to hash out what the hell is going on with Nova Bordelon and the realities of bi/pan erasure for black women characters on television.

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Excuse Me, Did True Blood’s Rutina Wesley Just Come Out By Announcing Her Gay Engagement On Instagram?

Go ahed, scroll through her Instagram gallery yourself; I’ll wait. 

By Heather Hogan| November 19, 2017 | 20 Comments

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