“I know and love many Danielle-esque people — but she is not me. Instead, she is the projection many people have of me solely based on my identity.”

I’m 23, and I’m not sure if I’m on a date (I’m not).

“In the 90s, everyone was telling kids they could be anything they wanted to be. But when people saw who I wanted to be they were like, maybe not that though, maybe that’s a little much.”

It’s obvious you love your fiancé very much, and want to protect them from any agony the world wants to hurl at them. Unfortunately, you mostly can’t. But here’s what you can do instead.

To love someone new is to agree to travel somewhere that doesn’t exist yet together.

New seasons of Star Trek Discovery, Dickinson and Gentefied; a super-queer comedy series about a gender-fluid Pakistani nanny/baritsa, a star-studded thriller about a girl’s soccer team and so much more to anticipate!

“Give me a human, I’ll keep it alive. Give me a plant, it’ll last a week.”

What is Black enough? What is queer enough?

Alex and Kelly welcome Esme into their lives while Kara and Lena try to get the hope totem before Nyxly does.

Miranda doesn’t know if she’s gay, or if it’s just menopause. Or, you know, her compulsive personality.

You do not need to feel guilty about the ways you’re hurting.

Season 2 of The Wilds had plenty of cute gay things going on with the girls, despite the unwanted addition of boys.

On putting the safe decorations in the closet and letting my home reach its full gay potential. On taking up space in my own space.

When Marissa asks Alex if she ever misses her parents, Alex’s answer comes quickly: “Sometimes. But my friends are my family you know?”

Grimes says her next album will be a space opera about a lesbian A.I. romance? Nah. Also, behind the scenes of Batwoman season two, the search for Renee Montoya, the PLL reboot fills in its cast, why Fear Street is built around a queer love story, and more!

“For now, what I’ll say about this storyline is that I was just glad to not see that damn purple coffee mug. The fact that they did not bring this coffee mug back out was one small mercy of this storyline for me.”

Plus the Sci-Fi/Fantasy better halves you’re sending to the Autostraddle Sweet 16!

As a gay parent, I have a lot of grievances about Pride — not one of them is about bare body parts or leather dykes and daddies.

You all are just so cool!

There’s a reason it has been my pinned tweet since 2016 — It’s my origin story.