Poetry, perversion, and erotic art; how to knot a cherry stem with your tongue; avoiding a buttplug nightmare; and more.

Mostly: “Why???” Also, why waiting for a crush to text back is the worst, why going to weddings is also the worst, self-sabotage, thinking through different relationship styles and more.

Whether gaydar is a thing, a new podcast that lets you listen in on couples therapy sessions, trans performers in mainstream porn, and more.

Etsy’s “vaginal wellness” problem, why alone time is good for relationships, why being cheated on is physically bad for you, having secret orgasms at the gym and more.

Uhauling the right way (involves waiting until you’re actually ready), using a fidget spinner as a sex toy, pubic hair portraits, and more.

How to take perfect naked selfies, why people like masochism, how much sex (some) people are having, seeing the same faces on dating apps over and over and more.

What type of love addict are you? How one woman’s disability impacted her queer dating life, popular sex toys by state, challenging fatphobia and more.

How to practice feminism in relationships, a vibrator for data nerds, some side-effects of orgasms, embracing change in long-term relationships, how to sext like the Victorians and more.

How to get over your breakup, what even are the sex bases, a new collection of trans erotica, why anal is awesome and more.

Where to have public sex, how many dating apps you should be on, whether sex is better high or drunk, how your sex life relates to your masturbation life and more.

Whether or not period syncing is allegedly a lie, the secret lives of hot people, aftercare for everyone, how to have casual sex, how to win at relationship fight club and more.

How to spank someone, how to not be an asshole, why double-ended dildos suck, the zodiac sign you should never date, Tyrannosaurus rex sex and more.

Sexual soulmates are a lie, fat sex week, Tinder on desktop, how transitioning changes sex, whether anyone is into threesomes and more.

A unicorn dildo, creating a healthy culture around sexuality and relationships, the technicolor photography of Maggie West and more.

Netflix and relationships, science finally learns about the clitoris (sort of), the We-Vibe “scandal,” what we owe to sex worker activism and more.

How to have anal sex for the first time, queer love in the anthropocene, a free online sex conference, fetish wear and fashion and more.

Safer sexting from a feminist perspective, everything about your ex, brains on BDSM, whether you need to wash your hands before fingering someone and more.

How to love or fuck each astrological sign, every idea you ever wanted to hear about Tinder, dueling opinions on queer sex as resistance, homoerotic lingerie ads and more.

Sex, drugs and music in your brain; watersports; coming out as a queer feminist stripper; and more!

A new dating app that lets you meet people who hate the same stuff you do; BDSM as moments of holding intensity; mental illness and dating; the most popular time to have morning sex; and more.