What’s up with your Venus, what happens in couples’ therapy, what to wear to break up with your partner and more!

Stop appropriating sex worker aesthetics, actually dating from dating apps, separation anxiety and more.

Pets! Sometimes they eat your sex toys or underwear or bondage rope or whatever. Has this happened to you? Let’s discuss.

Why scary moves make you horny, how to get candle wax (from play or ambiance) out of anything, strategies for (not) sending regrettable texts and more.

In short, if you know, you know: fat sex is church. Here are some of the positions that have taken me there when I knew I needed to be lifted in prayer.

If you ever wanted to know more about what it was like during Tumblr’s heyday — the good and the bad — Tumblr Porn is an excellent little primer from a very-invested insider.

Horny people lie more, stop calling sex shops sleazy, how to dump someone you love and more.

Tomorrow’s #NetflixWalkout, how literary gatekeepers can advocate for Black trans women, your weekly JoJo Siwa on DWTS, and the newest Ken Doll is wearing a seashell chest harness. Yes. I said that.

The damage of the war on sex work, vintage period booklets, when your head is aroused but your body isn’t (or vice versa) and more.

Rising STI rates, what you need to know about at-home testing kits, the best way to tell a partner you have an STI, why supplements won’t work and more.

If you’re looking for a double-ended dildo, the Share Lite is an excellent option, but it absolutely does not stay in place without a harness.

It’s our very last recamp! In this heart-pounding tale of love and life, a bunch of weirdos go to prom, witness an epic proposal, and share all their feelings.

A bookstore employee who’s crushing on her hot, older boss, finally tells her how she feels (and finds out how her boss feels, too)! “Our moans were call and response, our bodies constellations.”

“It’s not about causing the most pain or smacking as hard as I can. It’s about getting a reaction out of you and guiding you gently, but firmly, to your limit.”

Dating as a queer single mom, setting adult performers’ doxxed info literally on fire, weird rules around saying the word “vagina” in advertising and more.

Living apart together, having kids when you’re poly, when PMS and anxiety ask you for a threesome and more.

I still love service, but strapping for the first time expanded my very definition of the word.

Keeping a sex spreadsheet, using different sex toys in different ways, the deal with yes/no/maybe lists, what to do if you feel lonely and more.

Decriminalize sex work. Plus, dating through Facebook, why vaginal wellness is a scam, what happens in sex therapy and more.

Two lovers with heightened senses enjoy each other’s company in the woods. “Heather felt more than heard Christina’s moan — it was deep in her chest, like a rumble, like a growl. ‘Fuck, I love your tits,’ she said.”