Playlist: Proudly Trans, Proudly Horny

Trans sexuality is stigmatized everywhere, but in my experience it’s most disappointing when it happens within lesbian community. Many trans and nonbinary people within lesbian community find ourselves pressured to limit, hide, or deny our sexual desire in order to avoid that stigma. But we’re human! And like most humans, sometimes we really want to fuck. Pride means owning our horniness!

These aren’t necessarily the horniest songs by trans and nonbinary artists, nor are they necessarily the best. But they are the ones I’ve been bumping lately, within the genres I tend to like the best: pop, hyperpop, electronica, hip-hop, and R&B. This playlist is for the proudly horny trans and nonbinary babes — and the cis babes who think we’re sexy as Hell — who, this Pride, want to own our sexual desire without shame.

I’m sure I missed tons of the horniest, best songs by trans and nonbinary artists — get in the comments with any other recommendations!


A preview of some of the horny-as-fuck lyrics herein:

“They’ll hear it through the walls/ You and me are totally enthralled/ I’m in love with your body/ Keep giving it to me/ We’ll scream all through the night.” from “Scream” by G Flip

“Treat me like a slut/ Little dirty bitch, I love to fuck/ I wanna go harder/ I wanna cum faster/ I wanna last longer/ I wanna ride.” from “Treat Me Like A Slut” by Kim Petras

“I just wanna fuck too much, too much/ Wish that you would hold me/ Wanna feel that rush/ I miss your body so much/ I just want your physical touch/ Yeah, baby, I just really wanna fuck.” from “Physical Touch” by Petal Supply, recovery girl, and diana starshine

“I’ve had a rough day/ Could you tie me down to your bed/ Ride my sadness away/ I get so happy when you straddle my head … Jaw dislodged by the grinding of your hips/ I’m happy suffocating when you’re riding my face.” from “Face Riding” by Tami T

“I feel myself/ Growing big and hard inside you … Tie me up, looking down/ Black mass ready/ Tie me now to the ground/ Red mood heavy/ Have someone else’s will as your own/ Mercy of the master you’ve never known.” from “Tuck” by Yves Tumor

“Keep these niggas on my tit like a child/ Sucking on my nipples, tryna milk me like a cow/ Put it in my gut/ In the back of ya truck/ Honk honk on my gut/ Omg! what the fuck?/ Hurry up, bust ya nut/ You not my boo/ Don’t get comfortable.” from “Dickscipline” by Ms. Boogie

“You can touch me with slow hands/ Speed it up, baby, make me sweat/ Dreamland, take me there ’cause I want your sex/ If my body had a say, I wouldn’t turn away/ Touch, make love, taste you.” from “Body Say” by Demi Lovato

“Inhale, exhale, breathe me in/ With every breath, I’m sinkin’ in/ No way to describe it, I’m a riot
If I wake up and I’m somehow beside you/ Instead of inside you, that shouldn’t surprise you/ You don’t even notice, no need to remind you.”
from “melt” by Kehlani

Enjoy!


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Abeni Jones

Abeni Jones is a trans woman of color artist, educator, writer, and designer living in the Bay Area, CA.

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3 Comments

  1. Laura Jane Grace & The Devouring Mothers – Valeria Golino:
    So what if a camera recorded
    While I lay naked on a table
    I was completely motionless
    I let everything happen
    But she could not make me orgasm

    It doesn’t do it for me
    It doesn’t do it for me
    I need eye contact

    • This song has a VERY kinky,NSFW music video. And the (nonbinary) artist collaborated with Tami T for a few tracks.

      To the Moon and Back -Fever Ray

      “First I take you then you take me
      Breathe some life into a fantasy
      Your lips, warm and fuzzy
      I want to run my fingers up your pussy”

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