Welcome to the Interview With An Ex series, in which Autostraddle writers get back in touch with their exes to ask them Five Simple Questions:

How long did we date?
Why did we break up?
What did you learn from our relationship?
What do you miss most about me?
Would you invite me to your wedding (why/why not)?

you can't tell but i got a tattoo this day!! MR came with me to the appointment which was Very Nice of them, but then they just had to sit in the waiting area while the whole tattoo thing happened.

I first met MR when I was twenty years old. Our then-partners were friends, despite us going to different schools in different states (gay ...