Faking It Episode 305 Recap: We’re Gonna Ask Diane To Be Our Girlfriend!

Back at The Rabbi Dinner, this HILARIOUS thing is happening wherein the Rabbi wants Liam to know he’s totally cool about Liam dating Shane, but since no proper nouns are uttered, Liam and Rachel both think the Rabbi is cool about Liam and Rachel dating and don’t realize that he thinks Liam and Shane are gay for each other.

C'mon boys come over here I saw this really funny video on YouTube this morning that I wanna show you!

C’mon boys come over here I saw this really funny video on YouTube this morning that I wanna show you!

This’ll be a neat little misunderstanding they can spend the next 11 minutes sorting out for no real reason besides that the writers of this show obviously find situations like this to be very entertaining.

Swing Kids: Lauren’s dancing with Daddy and Farrah’s eagerly/nervously awaiting the arrival of her date. Probably Farrah should just date my Mom except she can’t because she’s not Jewish, so.

Someone help me I'm letting my daughter fall and she can't get up

Someone help me I’m letting my daughter fall and she can’t get up

Also, Diane wants to have some special time with Karma!

Honey, I'm telling you, there is no reason to shop full-price at Chico's when so much of their stuff shows up at Value World three weeks later!

Honey, I’m telling you, there is no reason to shop full-price at Chico’s when so much of their stuff shows up at Value World two seasons later!

Firstly, she wants Karma to know that she LOVES how evolved Karma is, and speaking of being evolved, she’s totally okay with Amy being a part of their special time because if anybody understands three-way dynamics, it’s Diane!

Diane: “Some things you should know about me: I’m a Pisces, obviously…”

I love Diane.


You better back off my older woman, bitch

You better back off my older woman, bitch

Rabbi Dinner: Liam thinks Rachel is levitating when she does the blessing over the bread, ’cause she’s the Rabbi’s daughter. This is exactly what she feared: that he’d begin seeing her differently when she found out he was the Rabbi’s daughter and not want to bang-bang-bang anymore. HOW WILL ANY OF US GO ON?

So who wants to lift this entire loaf of challah, tear off a small piece, and pass it to their

I told you Rachel, one glass of Manischewitz is plenty for Shabbat, we can’t have another incident like what happened last Sukkot

Also Shane’s bragging to Rachel’s sister about his cool new band ’cause he’s convinced it’d be a hit on the Bar/Bat Mitzvah circuit. He brags that he’s so cutting edge that he was the first person to come out in elementary school. Second grade! You know what I was doing in second grade? Writing a series of illustrated children books about creatures called “Simpletons” who looked like plates with arms. Anyhow, Rachel’s sister is the actual best.

Rachel’s Sister: You’re gay? Big whoop. Does it look like I need a makeover? My BFF Sammy came out as pansexual AND genderqueer in second grade.

I love this girl, she should be best friends with Lauren.

You know, Muzjiks is a word

You know, Muzjiks is a word, and so is “Za.”

I can win Words With Friends all by myself, thank you

I can win Words With Friends all by myself, thank you

Swing Kids: Lauren won’t let another lady cut in on her Daddy-Daughter Dance Time, and Molly and Dad are SO happy that Karma is hitting it off with Diane because tonight — !!! — they’re gonna ask Diane to be their girlfriend!!!!

Thanks SOOOO much for the virgin cocktails!

Thanks SOOOO much for the virgin cocktails! Alcohol is TOTALLY for losers!

Before this tremendous conversation can continue, The Aschrofts are summoned to the dance floor by Pisces Diane. She does that rodeo dance move where you pretend to lasso somebody and pull them onto the floor, which oh my gosh means Karma’s parents have to sort of waddle out there like they’re trying to avoid stepping in a series of puddles and it’s SO adorable and SO embarrassing.







Karma, appalled by this display, announces that they must do all they can to force this thruple to break up. But they’re so happy!

Back at Rabbi Dinner, Rachel’s upset that Liam is having second thoughts about defiling the Rabbi’s daughter. But the Rabbi says it’s okay, Jews aren’t uptight about sex! We don’t even believe in hell! He totally approves of Liam’s situation! So Liam and Rachel take this to mean that it’s totally okay for them to bang bang bang.

Meanwhile in IAlmostCaresville, Shane’s having a crisis as Rachel’s sister typity-types away on her cell-phone and he realizes nobody cares about white cis gay men anymore.

Shane: You’re right. I’m not special. I used to be! But now it’s intersex people, trans folks, pansexual genderqueers! Who am I?
Rachel’s sister: You’re nobody. So now that we’re agreed, I can represent you. I saw you play at the Brew and Jew. You’re decent. But once you play at my Bat Mitzvah, all of my friends will demand you too. Of course I’ll be taking a 40% cut, have setlist approval, and let’s be real, I WILL take that makeover.


SwingFest Not That Kind Of Swingfest:  Lauren’s exhausted from dancing with her Dad all night so that he’ll be looking real cool when Farrah swings in AND won’t be dancing with this 19-year-old extra who’s got her eye on him.


also if ur stopping @ store on the way home we need more mint choc chip

Although Amy promised Lauren that they’d be full Parent Trap tonight, she’s been sucked into the Karma Trap instead. It’s like a Venus Fly Trap, except instead of a plant eating a bug, it’s Karma trying to find a way to make her parents unhappy by rooting through Diane’s car for evidence that she is secretly a terrible person. Maybe she’s not even a Pisces. Then, Amy’s hand gets caught on the stick shift and they end up hurling backwards into the back of the van in a situation that would be perfect for sexual tension. Amy tells Karma to just tell her parents how she really feels, which, apparently, is: I feel weird about Diane and therefore you should break up with her. On the one hand, this is ridiculously selfish, but on the other hand, Karma’s a teenager, and teenagers tend to have strong feelings about who their parents date.

Let's make out

Let’s make out

Sorry one sec, I'm getting like a ton of texts from Lauren at the same time

Sorry one sec, I’m getting like a ton of texts from Lauren at the same time

Meanwhile, Lauren’s gotta set up this Parent Trap all by her damn self, apparently. She locates a downtrodden Farrah sitting outside lamenting the fact that The Most Interesting Man In the World never showed up, and maybe she never should’ve left Lauren’s father after all! This is perfect news, so Lauren rushes Farrah back into the building only to discover….

Ted Cruz?

You feel how fast my heart is beating? That’s from the Aschrofts’ Crystal Methmobile!

Womp Womp.

What the fuck is Diane doing here?

What the fuck is Diane doing here?

Amy shows up just in time to be way too late.

Is Diane still here? I have to tell her how I feel!

Did we miss the limbo contest? Please say no!

Shabbat With Rabbi Cool Dad: Liam and Rachel are hooking up while downstairs, the Rabbi is being quickly convinced to hire Shane’s hot new band for his special daughter’s Big Bat Mitzvah. I mean, after all, Shane is his favorite Bar Mitzvah student’s boyfriend!

Shane: What? Liam!!? We’re not boyfriends, Liam’s as hetero as they come!

Cut to the upstairs lounge, where The Rabbi, Shane and the Sister barge in on what they thought was a condoned sexual experience.



I brought my own I swear!

I brought my own I swear!

The Rabbi tells Liam he needs to join a new temple.

Well, the dancing part of the evening is over and here we are at the Ashcrofts, where Karma’s gonna tell her parents the truth about how she feels about Diane, and she does. They thank her for her honesty and she’s like “oh good, so you’ll stop seeing her?” and I mean, OF COURSE NOT, IT’S DIANE! BUT they will hold back on asking her to move in and they’ll only have sleepovers at her place. This sounds like a pretty sweet deal ’cause “sleepovers” mean Karma could have the whole place to herself and potentially host a party for all the lesbian and bisexual women in Austin to come over and kiss Amy on the mouth, but Karma’s not into it. Because she is bananas.

Look, I know it's unorthodox, but

It’s true. LGBT Fans Deserve Better and I’m not afraid to say so.

Back at Amy’s Sad Shack, Lauren is officially Over It. She got ditched for Karma and their Parent Trap plan failed as spectacularly as Lindsay Lohan’s career several years following The Parent Trap. Lauren won’t admit that she feels personally rejected, of course — that Amy means something to her, and that she wants to mean something to Amy in return — but still, Amy wants to make it clear that she’s always ditching things for Karma b/c Karma’s her best friend and that’s what best friends do. Meanwhile, Lauren is her sister, which is also meaningful, but in a different way! Lauren doesn’t wanna hear it, though: they’re not sisters anymore, anyhow, are they? Now that their parents aren’t together?

Look I'm sorry I borrowed your bra but I needed a really specific bra in order to pull off the standalone-vest look!

Look I’m sorry I borrowed your bra but I needed a really specific bra in order to pull off the standalone-vest look!

You really need to stop talking to me about your boobs

You really need to stop talking to me about your boobs

One last thing, though? Lauren’s sick of this shit, in general. She’s moving out.

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  1. I screamed when I saw Diane. THAT’S MARY CHERRY!!!!

    Also, Lauren is the best and Amy needs to treat her right and I need to not be so attracted by Karma and also Rabbi’s little kid rocks and so do your captions.

  2. Ugh, Lauren please don’t leave the Fawcett household! Although I’m kinda strongly suspecting (or probably simply hoping) that Lauren has more than just “sisterly” feelings for Amy. Especially since she seems really jealous of Karma hanging out with Amy.

    But anyway, thanks Riese for continuing recapping the show!

  3. Brilliant, brilliant, brilliant recap!

    Please continue to just barely cover anything involving Liam (or leave him out altogether, he’s honestly the most unnecessary character ever to exist).

    Diane is Mary Cherry*!!!

    *incidentally, until like last week this is who I thought Heather was referring to in her tweets about the Great British Bakeoff. It…makes more sense that it’s actually a British lady who is not a fictional character from the 90s.


    IMO Lauren is (and probably always has been) starved for real, close friendships. She’s spent her whole life holding her cards close to her chest and not letting people all the way in (and understandably so). She formed a special bond with Amy, and now that’s threatened by the reappearance of Karma in Amy’s life.

    Friendships in high school are already so intense, but when you throw in the fact that Lauren’s an only child* who suddenly gained a sister only to lose her? I’d be feeling the exact same way tbh. I HAVE felt that way, being an only child who has lost multiple step-siblings after my divorced parents ended their respective relationships and found new partners.

    *Amy is also an only child but Karma has been a substitute sister since childhood, whereas Lauren hasn’t had anyone like that in her life (that we know of, and going by the evidence).

  5. Oh Riese, thank you for this. Feel free to cut down on the Liam parts as much as you want – hell, cut ’em out entirely if you feel like it! Though I gotta say, Shane and that Bat Mitzvah girl were hilarious this week. I’m really hoping they team up more in the future.

    Also, I really, really appreciate having a Jewish recapper recapping Jewish-y things. It’s making this “Liam discovers Judaism” plot marginally more bearable.

  6. These recaps are definitely a highlight, often better than the actual show (especially when they gloss over the whole boring Liam/Shane nonsense)

    Also, why is Karma always the worst? Give Mary Cherry a chance! Lauren > Karma in life and recap-life.

  7. If Lauren is gone for more than one episode, I just don’t know what I’ll do.
    Everything is better with less Liam, for sure.

    My favorite text exchange I had while watching this week’s episode:
    Me: Why is Shane wearing a plastic bag?
    My Partner: I think it’s a “gay” thing. Or Liam’s latest art project?

  8. The Olive Garden caption picture series was too much. I love these recaps far more than I love this show, although it matters supremely to me that Amy ends up happy.

    Also, does ANYONE give a shit about Liam? Because I don’t.

  9. So happy to see you are still recapping. I think there will come a point where more people read these recaps than actually watch the show. And then they will ask you to just write the show and we finally get a girlfriend for Amy.

  10. These recaps are very important to me. Amy needs to learn how to make space for multiple people in her life, instead of ditching Lauren whenever Karma calls. Maybe she could take lessons from Karma’s parents?

  11. I really love that Karma’s parents are poly. Until now, the show has mostly played them as buffoons, but I decided to ignore that, and I’m hoping this plot will play out in a good way.

    If we have to devote time to boy stories, seeing Shane taken down by a tween was gratifying.

    I was really annoyed by Amy ditching Lauren. But worse was that she didn’t seem to really get why it was painful for Lauren. I find Karma insufferable, but Amy is becoming insufferable when Karma is around (which actually was kind of true since the first episode, when she went along with the fake lesbian gambit).

    I realize teenagers are often insufferable. I never said it wasn’t realistic.

    The recaps make continuing to watch the show worthwhile. The network should pay Riese and AS a sizeable chunk of money to keep doing it, since without the these recaps to keep us interested, the show’s ratings would probably drop substantially. At least that’s what I’m telling myself.

    Do sub-sized challah exist outside TV? I used to bake my own, but they were always normal loaf sized. I did like the “Jews don’t have sex shame” comment. I remember the command to please your wife on the Sabbath. We could use a little advertising of that nature, to counteract some of the less savory misconceptions that get floated.

    • I really like the observation about Amy changing around Karma. Karma’s whole brand is changing herself in order to please others, but they do a nice job of showing how hard it is for Amy to be authentic when she feels the pull of Amy.

  12. Actually I really liked the “Jews don’t have sex shame” comment too – until the show completely and utterly backtracked on that by having the Rabbi become so furious over the idea of someone defiling his precious little flower. There were other ways they could have played the awkwardness of being caught in the act by your father/your rabbi then reverting to the usual “father with a shotgun” trope. UGH.

  13. “You’re gay? Big whoop. Does it look like I need a makeover? My BFF Sammy came out as pansexual AND genderqueer in second grade.”

    But like if we could actually have a genderqueer pansexual person ON THIS SHOW THO

  14. Riese, thank you for continuing to do these recaps! I know the comments last week got a little fraught in places but that makes me appreciate this even more. Thank you also for being accessible and open to reader requests (and criticism).

  15. “Karma’s mom, you get a girlfriend! Karma’s dad, you get a girlfriend! Liam, look under your seat… that’s right, YOU get a girlfriend! YOU get a girlfriend, YOU get a girlfriend! EVERYONE GETS GIRLFRIENDS!!!!!… Oh. Sorry, Amy. We ran out. Maybe next time?” The only explanation for this show is that Oprah must be the show runner.

    That being said, I ship DianexEveryone until the end of time. If you need me, I’ll be writing a fan fiction Lauren grows up to be a power lesbo, marries Diane, runs her own talent agency where Rachel’s sister is her assistant, and singlehandedly bring the shoulder pad back into style.

  16. I’m a little late to this week — but I WAS EXCITED ABOUT DIANE!!

    But then, I am excited about all Leslie Grossman appearances everywhere! She has a compelling and off-centre kind of presence, and always brings such verve to her roles.

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