identity ‘Do I Count As Bi?’ “I’ve always identified as straight but in recent years have questioned my identity.” Summer Tao Apr 28, 2026
af+ I’m a Cis Butch Woman, and Boy Do I Want Top Surgery! Can you feel dysphoric about your boobs even if you’re not trans? Also, tips on how to learn to love your body as you come into your queerness. the team — Sep 12, 2025
coming out ‘I Really Want To Be Bi but I’m Unsure HELP’ Life got much easier when I learned I could keep a bunch of labels/self-identities in my pocket and swap them out as necessary. Summer Tao — Sep 2, 2025
music Lorde Doesn’t Need To Know If She’s Trans To Make a Trans Anthem Lorde’s new single, “Man of the Year”, is full of early trans feelings. That includes not knowing if she’s even trans. Drew Burnett Gregory — May 29, 2025
identity ‘I Met a Lesbian Married to a Man and I’m Confused’ Once upon a time, I was a lesbian with a boyfriend, so I’m uniquely qualified to answer this one. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Apr 22, 2025
identity Arab Lesbianism Is Not an Oxymoron The invention of homophobia is an inherently Western, colonialist ideal that was forced upon the SWANA world. Noor Aldayeh — Apr 9, 2025
gender ‘I Want To Change My Name Again’ Wanting to change your name now after people have adjusted will not make you a burden. Summer Tao — Mar 18, 2025
gender ‘I’m Lost in the Gender Expression Sauce’ “I always thought, if I weren’t a trans man, I’d be a butch lesbian.” Summer Tao — Mar 11, 2025
