first person I Can’t Bottom Anymore My sexual life is inextricably linked to my transition. KB Brookins May 14, 2026
first person Dispatches From My First Few Weeks in Florida Everyone keeps telling me the correct way to outrun an alligator, but I keep forgetting. Also, everything about Disney World sounds made up. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Nov 15, 2021
first person Strapping As A Fat Femme Was My Black Queer Sexual Liberation A fat Black femme explores the relationship with her body and shares how strapping became part of her sexual liberation. Demetria Blooms — Nov 11, 2021
sex I Always (Never) Feel Like — Somebody’s Watching Me Are you gonna let them watch you strap up or are you a “BRB” kinda babe? Danielle and SC Dillon — Nov 11, 2021
first person Suck My Silicone Or Save Your Mouth For Me? Should you play suck and blow or what’s the point? Kris Chesson and Rainn — Nov 10, 2021
first person One Strap To Rule Them All Or Nah — Not So Much? Do you only need one strap or is variety truly the spice of life? Demetria Blooms and Courtney Garrett — Nov 9, 2021
sex To Strap Or Not To Strap — That Is The Question It’s the age-old queer question — Are you strapping or nah? Addie Tsai and akalac — Nov 8, 2021
food and drink Wild Cravings: The Lonely Cheeseburger When I think of that time and place, those seven months in a Lakeview walkup, I think of those cheeseburgers, and I think of that friendship. Neither are really in… Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Nov 6, 2021
first person Scenes from a Gender 05: The Prehatching Years I was mortified, to be sure, but also honored and validated, to be on the girls’ team. And oh yes, honey – I’ve never left. Bishakh Som — Oct 28, 2021