first person I Can’t Bottom Anymore My sexual life is inextricably linked to my transition. KB Brookins May 14, 2026
first person I Miss Feeling Hot My surgeon informed me that I’d have to spend the rest of Pride Month with my hair pulled back, ointment gooped on, and absolutely no hotness allowed. Drew Burnett Gregory — Jun 18, 2025
first person Coping Mechanisms That Might Make My Friends Side-Eye Me (And Honestly? Valid) Did it keep me from texting my ex at 8 p.m.? Surprisingly, yes. Carlo — Jun 13, 2025
first person My Childhood Was Abusive. The Effects of CPTSD Kept Me From Realizing It It took me over two decades to readily consider myself a victim of abuse. Summer Tao — Jun 10, 2025
first person At 28, I Blew Up My Life To Train in Jiu-Jitsu and as a Dominatrix Beneath the latex and leather is sacred work. Mistress Eris — Jun 9, 2025
first person My New Year’s Resolution Was To Do More Drugs I rang in the New Year with my friends, watching an endless stream of K-Pop music videos and eating lots of mushroom chocolate. Vera Blossom — Jun 6, 2025
first person I’m Finally Living the Friend-Filled Summers I Grew Up Watching On-Screen I was always especially envious of the way movies depicted childhood summers, like in Now & Then. Valerie Anne — Jun 4, 2025
first person All the Time We Had You always called me angel. At first I didn’t like that. It felt dysphoric, which was confusing, because you were trans yourself, “more” trans than me, having spent years on… Lydi Conklin — Jun 2, 2025
first person I Suddenly Hate Aging and It Makes Me Feel Like a Bad Lesbian I don’t know when I became a vain person, but I swear I used to be better. Becoming a competitive athlete in my thirties has not helped. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — May 28, 2025
