first person I Can’t Bottom Anymore My sexual life is inextricably linked to my transition. KB Brookins May 14, 2026
first person Aunt Opal and the California Cabbage Fund “When I asked her if I had to start praying for a husband, she laughed like a bark, like the boss.” Heather Hogan — Feb 19, 2022
first person The Numbers in My Phone I tried for a long time not to have a smart phone. sheena d. — Feb 17, 2022
first person The Double Lives of Queer Church Musicians Many of my colleagues and I have left church music leadership entirely. Cat Dean — Feb 15, 2022
first person Caterpillar Soup: A Trans Girl Finds Her Style Emme Lund writes about butterflies, fashion, and finding her own sense of style while she moves through her transition. Emme Lund — Feb 15, 2022
first person It’s Five O’Clock Somewhere You can’t see the stars in the city I live in, so I would spend my nights out on my balcony, drinking, letting my eyesight go slack and drift into… danijanae — Feb 10, 2022
first person On Gender Fabrication and Femme Embodiment There are so many things I may reach for to explain how I know I am a femme or an intersex non-binary woman but these words and concepts themselves are… CJ Kitten Miller — Jan 28, 2022
first person I Used Instagram Mantras As Therapy — And It Worked They served as daily messages your best friend should tell you when you’re hurting — and in desperate need of a silver lining. Christina Anthony — Jan 26, 2022
first person As a Black, Fat, Disabled Person in Love, My Monogamy Feels Radical For me, navigating polyamorous dynamics with white people is inherently taxing and painful as a Black person. Teighlor McGee — Jan 25, 2022
