first person Robin Wright as a Ruthless Monster-in-Law in ‘The Girlfriend’ Gave Me Flashbacks Nico Oct 10, 2025
breakups Salons and Divorce Doulas: How Queers Are Fighting the Trauma and Stigma of Divorce Carmen Phillips and Nico Feb 20, 2024
first person Robin Wright as a Ruthless Monster-in-Law in ‘The Girlfriend’ Gave Me Flashbacks Nico Oct 10, 2025
breakups Salons and Divorce Doulas: How Queers Are Fighting the Trauma and Stigma of Divorce Carmen Phillips and Nico Feb 20, 2024
af+ Writing Yourself Home: A Generative Writing Workshop on December 21 Facilitated by shea wesley martin, this 90-minute workshop creates space for participants to intentionally engage in writing, discussing craft, and building connections within the A+ community. Nico and shea wesley martin — Dec 12, 2022
meet-ups / events Put These 13 Days of A+ Discord Events on Your Gay Agendas “What better way to celebrate than with a watchalong to a 20-year-old lesbian classic that is not in any way seasonally adjacent?” Nico — Dec 7, 2022
holigays Break the Kitchenette With Some Herbaceous Simple Syrups for the Holigays I am going to suggest that you make a Christmas tree into a simple syrup for the holidays, and I will be right. Nico — Dec 5, 2022
visual art An Interview with the Queer Creator of the Gandalf Big Naturals Meme “I like to think that Gandalf Big Naturals is an angel, or some kind of final parting gift from my own boobs…” Nico — Dec 2, 2022
af+ Things I’ve Never Asked Carmen About Growing Up in a Theater Family, Her Dating Habits, and More! We talk tattoos, 9/11 and Carmen’s high school activism, spirituality, what L Word character Carmen is most like, being a die-hard femme and more! Nico — Nov 16, 2022
straddleverse Thank You and Welcome to 550+ New A+ Members! It’s impossible for indie media to exist without reader support! Nico — Nov 13, 2022
sex What If, Lube? Lube. Just lube. Lube for regular sex, with or without toys. Lube anytime, for anything. It’s lube! Nico — Nov 10, 2022
astrology, tarot & witchcraft Switching to Menstrual Cups Made Harvesting My Blood for Witchcraft 1000% More Convenient I ACCEPT THE ADVICE YOU ALL KEPT GIVING ABOUT “MY MOON” OKAY. Nico — Nov 7, 2022
af+ Right The Heck Now: You, Us, the A+ Pop-Up Discord? Join us! Plus there’s a hang with the senior team on Friday! Nico — Nov 3, 2022
af+ Should We Have an A+ Meetup in Providence, RI Next Week? Discuss! On Monday??? Nico — Nov 2, 2022
straddleverse WHAT In the Queer Media Happened You All!?!?? No, this is UNHEARD OF. Nico — Nov 2, 2022
meet-ups / events Next Weekend: You, Us, the A+ Pop-Up Discord? And a hang with the senior team on Friday! Nico — Oct 29, 2022
