6 Sex Toys to Really Make an Impact (on Someone’s Butt)

Sponsored by Eve’s Toys.

Is there anything butts can’t do? Let us be thankful, today and all days, for butts. The possibilities for butt play and pleasure seem almost endless — not only inside, but also outside! This guide walks beginners to impact play through slappers, crops, and light paddles and floggers, helping you find the perfect match for you and your butt (or someone else’s).

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Scarlet Couture Diamond Whip

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Scarlet Couture Diamond Whip - a red and black whip with a diamond pattern on the handle, and a leather loop strap for your wrist

Cracking a whip (or flogger, which is really what this is) is so hot, but also can often be so expensive! To get into impact play with floggers, try out this vegan leather option; it’s lightweight, approachable, and gives your activity partner a pleasantly stingy sensation that may be easier for beginners to control. If you and your activity partner are ready for more, try out NSFW Consultant Carolyn’s hot hot tip: “If someone bought this and wanted it to be even stingier, using sharp scissors to trim the ends of each fall so they’re a point instead of blunt could help!”

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Scarlet Couture Paddle

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Scarlet Couture Paddle - a black paddle with a red rope attached.

Ready to try out spanking (or spanking with something that isn’t your hand)? This lightweight paddle is great for warmups or for light impact play, and wow, free rope?? Will wonders never cease! Although too thin little thin to be ideal bondage rope, it’s a fun and easy entry point into trying out bondage 101.

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Tantric Satin Pleasure Whip

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Tantric Satin Pleasure Whip - a red and black pattern on the handle, with all-black tails

You want the authority and power of holding a whip in your hand; they want luxurious sensual teasing. Sounds like what you both want is the Tantric Satin Pleasure whip; it’s not designed for flogging as such, and the falls are a soft satin that’s perfect for teasing and stroking across skin rather than impact. If the feeling of satin and the satisfying whishing sound of falls through the air is what you’re looking for, this whip is all pleasure, no pain.

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Leather Heart Impression Slapper

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Leather Heart Impression Slapper - a black paddle with three red hearts on the paddle area

Love the sound of a loud, crisp slap, you’ll love this slapper — perfect for when you and your bottom (and their bottom) want the sensory experience of loud impact without worrying about hitting too hard. The cute little hearts? A cherry on top.

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Fur-Lined Paddle

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Fur-Lined Paddle - an all black paddle with soft fur on one side, smooth leather on the other.

Life is all about contrasts — work and play, whiskey shots and pickle chasers, prestige television and rewatching Love Actually. Get into the duo of the stingy, slappy smooth side and thuddier, cushioned fur-lined side of this paddle and spend a whole evening — or a whole quarantine — trying out all the possible combinations of both.

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Impressions Heart Crop

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Impressions Heart Crop - A long handled crop with a red heart on the tip.

If you’re ready to get in touch with your inner Lucy-Liu-as-Corporate-Dominatrix-in-Charlie’s-Angels self in an approachable way, the Impressions Heart Crop is waiting for you. Its length gives beginners lots of control, and your activity partner can experience a beginning level of pain with a satisfying slap — and depending on your force and your activity partner’s body, maybe you’ll get some cute heart impressions left behind as a souvenir. Practice on pillows and yourself first to make sure you have the control you need to use just the tip!

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