Welcome to the 13 Days of A+ of 2023!

The 13 Days of A+ is upon us!

Every year, as we're taking stock of the fact that this website is still on the internet — in whatever state it might be in — and that we are still. In fact. Here. And there's one major reason that Autostraddle still exists, and that's you, A+ member! So, now, for the FOURTH year in a row, we are bringing you 13 consecutive days of A+ content, starting today with an anonymous sex diary, publishing at 10am PST / 1pm EST.

But there's more!

As has been tradition, because what are queer people if not folks who make our own traditions, we are going to be opening another A+ Pop-Up Discord Server, starting at approximately 1:30pm PST ...

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Nico Hall is Autostraddle's and For Them's Membership Editorial and Ops Dude, and has been working in membership and the arts for over a decade. They write nonfiction both creative and the more straightforward variety, too, as well as fiction. They are currently at work on a secret project. Nico is also haunted. You can find them on Twitter and Instagram. Here's their website, too.

Nico has written 227 articles for us.