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Food and Drink

Happy Hour at Home: Rebranding Leftovers as a Chef’s Tasting Menu

Earlier this week, I was simply couldn’t cook another meal. In an effort to spice things up when a restaurant date night is so far out of the question, I decided to rebrand the random shit in our fridge as a “tasting menu” — complete with wine pairings.

By Kayla| April 2, 2020 | 9 Comments
First Person Gender

What Self-Quarantine is Teaching Me About Gender Dysphoria

Three weeks ago I began my Coronavirus self-quarantine. Faced with the reality that I wouldn’t see anyone, I started an experiment. I wasn’t going to shave, paint my nails, or put on makeup — until I wanted to, for myself.

By Drew Gregory| April 2, 2020 | 15 Comments
Advice Business + Work

Queered & Careered: 10 Tips on Working From Home in the Era of Social Distancing

Since working from home is a part of the national call to practice social distancing, many of us are also navigating loneliness, restlessness, and anxiety. Here are a few tips that can help you on your journey.

By Tiara DeGuzman| April 1, 2020 | 2 Comments
Straddleverse

You Should Make A Blanket Fort This Weekend

Literally why not?

By Molly| March 27, 2020 | 12 Comments
Straddleverse

Shelter In Our Place: Autostraddle’s Virtual Community Care Week

We made you a week-long virtual hangout space on Instagram because times are very tough. If you’re feeling alone right now, please come Shelter In Our Place for a little while.

By Vanessa| March 23, 2020 | 6 Comments
Sex + Relationships

Surprise, You’re In A Long Distance Relationship Now!

Here’s some advice about how to weather a long distance relationship during a global pandemic, whether you and your babe live in different countries or just a few blocks away.

By Vanessa| March 23, 2020 | 17 Comments
Society + Culture

Everything You Need to Know About Building Your Best Group Chat Life

Let’s chat about group chats.

By Vanessa| March 21, 2020 | 11 Comments
Politics + Activism

Four Ways the COVID-19 Pandemic Is Affecting the LGBTQ+ Community

In this pandemic, we are watching the compounded failures of capitalism and narcissistic government play out. We’re seeing issues that primarily target marginalized communities now take a broader toll. But as members of marginalized communities, we know what that means: our community is getting hit even harder than before.

By himani| March 20, 2020 | 2 Comments
Television

Ask Us Anything: What To Watch While Social Distancing, From Noted Queer Experts

Get some personalized recs from the Autostraddle TV Team! Right now! Just for you! LIVE! Because we love you!

By The TV Team| March 19, 2020 | 118 Comments
News + Politics

Here’s Your Latest COVID-19 and Coronavirus News, Updated Throughout the Week

To keep everyone abreast of the latest pandemic-related news, we’re creating a Coronavirus edition of Extra! Extra! that will be regularly updated with the latest news. We’ll continue our regular Extra! Extra! column each Friday with non-Coronavirus news because, after all, the world keeps on turning.

By the team| March 17, 2020 | 15 Comments
Food and Drink Society + Culture

Ask Us Anything About Cooking While Social Distancing

Need help figuring out what to prioritize buying at the grocery store? Want to know what to make with what you already have? Get in here!! We’re answering all your questions!

By Kayla| March 17, 2020 | 112 Comments
Society + Culture

Dollar, Dollar Bills Y’all: Resources for Paying Bills During COVID-19

Bills still need to get paid and the hustler in me immediately went looking for ways to help people do that. From cellphone and internet to rent and health insurance — here’s everything I learned.

By Shelli Nicole| March 17, 2020 | 14 Comments
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