Some Valentine’s suggestions if you’re into that kind of thing; the many ways to be kinky; the many ways to be probably in love with your best friend; publish more queer erotica and more.

Why burnout is hitting us now, the dark side of the houseplant boom, queer beer festivals for everyone and happy 5th anniversary to Beyonce’s Lemonade!

Nicole you could run a PI office just for tracking down and interpreting the astrology of famous queers. Think about it.

When exactly did they develop a taste for the cherry and on which day in history did they finally deign to take a bite?

Plus updates on the latest installment of American Horror Stories, some 90s Black teen lesbian romance on Raising Kanan, and the season three finale of Charmed!

Is it bad that your type is queer mascs / butches, are you burnt out, and how do you move on after your partner cheats on you with your best friend? The team answers all these questions, and more in our members-only advice column!

Last week, we partnered with Rainbow Health to host a virtual workshop on COVID-19 and queer sexual health. Here’s a complete transcript of what went down!

I tried for a long time not to have a smart phone.

Brandi Carlile on her morning routine, guess who’s IRL gay from Falcon and The Winter Solider, and these anti-trans sports bills aren’t just transphobic — they’re racist, too.

Y’all ever heard of Ryan Wilder?

Plus also! Updates on The Real Dirty Dancing, 4400, Queens and grown-ish.

As we head into the crisp, fresh beginning of 2020 and a new decade, we want to hear about your queerest, wildest dreams for the future. Deadline for submissions is January 31!

I was proudly pro-abortion before I was a mom. I’ve doubled down on that belief after becoming one.

Plus! Updates on Legacies, Riverdale, Hightown, and The Sex Lives of College Girls!

“I feel like people started enacting these borders around it and categorizing it, and that felt so bad and wrong, and the antithesis of everything that it should be. Then, some people also really conflated it with the idea of being genderless or agender, and I’m like, “No…” I feel a lot of gender feelings! I don’t know what they are, or what they mean, but they’re there.”

The Gossip Girl reboot, new seasons of Atypical, This Way Up and Never Have I Ever, a three-part horror trilogy full of ’90s nostalgia with a lesbian couple at its center and more!

Lady gays abound on this week’s episode of Top Chef! Plus updates on: the season finale of This Is Us, Nancy Drew, Charmed, All Rise, and All American. Also, the trailer for the new gay Gossip Girl is here, you know you love us, XOXO.

If you’ve been missing crying over The Fosters, good news — Stef and Lena are back to remind you it’s not where you come from; it’s where you belong.

Plus updates on grown-ish, Raising Kanan, and iCarly.

The Autostraddle team offers A+ members advice on topics from changing your name, to working as one of the only out queer teachers at a middle school, feeling pulled between different causes, maybe finally taking a break from a draining friendship, feeling like you don’t fit into queer community, and so much more!