The collective summer horniness is for dating as well as orgies — but here’s how to go swinging, just in case. (Spoiler alert: it’s not on Twitter.)

A new relationship compatibility test, challenges in teledildonics, I refuse to call pandemic sex “coronalingus,” and more.

What to do when you’re too sore from a spanking to sit, being solo poly in quarantine, whether or not coconut oil can cure yeast infections and more.

Protect partners’ alone time. Plus, why to ask a lot of questions during a hookup, what to do when you disassociate during sex, Daddy/little dynamics and more.

How to grow out your pubic hair, consider the assless panty, clean your sex toys, prevent summer UTIs, learn what your astrological sign says about what you’re like to date or dump, and more.

Virtual vulvas, queer sex as resistance, porn traffic dipped during the women’s march and other stories to read before/after you hit the streets.

Excerpts from super hot queer erotica short stories just for you.

This week on NSFW Sunday: sexy terminology, lesbian sex scenes, representation, vaginal knitting and more.

This week on NSFW Sunday: PDAs, when straight people ask questions about lesbian sex, dating while living with a chronic illness and more.

This week on NSFW Sunday: lingerie, cunnilingus, thinking kink and a guide to writing erotica.

Getting comfortable talking about sex, being able to defend your relationship, a conversation about BDSM and play and more.

Asexuality, taking dirty pictures, why sex education should include masturbation, and more.

Biased sex research, faking orgasms, female ejaculation, pea mousse and BDSM and more.

“Oh, to be ready for it, unf*cked, ever-f*cked.”

Buying lube, being submissive, tweeting porn, (not) blaming your bad relationship with a person on your good relationship with your phone and more.

Sexual satisfaction by country, projects about orgasms, trans and genderqueer porn stars, reminding people that bisexuality exists and more.

2010! What a year! We look back at the world’s favorite ‘lesbian sex’ moments and also recall all of the lovely sex talks we’ve had this year. Extra photos, extra text, extra linkage, extra hotness, because it’s the day after Christmas so we should all be jolly or whatever.

Today is the last-ever NSFW Sunday – and a love letter to building a life around queer sex.

Instagram and Facebook etc. are failing sex workers by shadowbanning their content. Plus: what to do if you can’t orgasm, what love bombing is, misunderstanding herpes and more.

What to do with the instagram photos you have with your ex, what to do with the nudes you have of your ex, how to overcome anxiety for better queer sex and more.