Welcome to the 45th edition of Into the A+ Advice Box, in which we answer all the queer and lesbian advice questions from A+ members who submitted their queries into our A+ ask box! Here, we answer your questions in a space just for A+ members, safe from the general public. (No guarantees regarding your ex, however.) Here, the Autostraddle team’s doling out advice on everything from sex and relationships, to friend and family dynamics, career questions, style, and more! We’re doing this column TWICE a month, now.
Every SECOND A+ Advice box of the month is themed. This month’s theme is STRAIGHT PEOPLE PROBLEMS! Please get your questions in by Monday, October 4, 2021! The general Into the A+ Advice Box (like this one!) where we take questions on practically any topic, publishes on the first Friday of each month.
So, let’s dig in!
I don't really expect concrete help on this question since y'all are based in the States and I'm in Scandinavia but, it's driving me crazy and...
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