first person I Sent Nudes to Someone Pretending To Be a Fellow Sex Worker Learn from my experiences. Here’s how you can avoid getting catfished. Summer Tao Mar 12, 2026
first person Finally — A Rainbow That Feels Like Home I was in California for a conference when I heard about the Club Q shooting. shea wesley martin — Dec 5, 2022
first person Goodbye to My Gallbladder Happy Gallbladder Day on Autostraddle dot com! I’m glad you’re here and I’m glad my gallbladder is not. Vanessa — Nov 30, 2022
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first person My Anxiety Turns Life Into a Horror Movie Most of my fears are around dying, maybe because I don’t understand it. ashni — Nov 9, 2022
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