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How to Have Phone Sex: A Detailed Guide

Here’s a very thorough how to guide for approaching phone sex, from a chatty Capricorn slut whose greatest (PG-13) talent in life is never shutting up.

The 50 Best Queer Sex Toys

Autostraddle’s definitive list of the 50 best sex toys for queer sex.

How to Have Lesbian Sex For the First Time

This is how we do it, it’s Sunday night and I’m feeling right, the party is here on the Lez Side.

6 Easy Steps for Fucking Your Friends Without Fucking Up the Friendship

Let’s rebrand fall as Sex With Friends Season rather than Cuffing Season, yeah?

You Deserve to Practice Elaborate Masturbation in Your Life; Here’s How

I once described a particularly elaborate session I’d had to a friend, and she seemed shocked and impressed. “You like, really love yourself, huh?” I do. I really do. And you can too!

5 Ways to Send the First Tinder Message That Aren’t Just Saying “Hey There”

Much like how a bio should be written with the goal of giving a hottie something to react to, a first message should be easy to reply to and easy to move the conversation forward from! What does one say to “hey” aside from “hey,” or on a sunny day, “hey!” I ask of you.

Chill or Be Chilled: 10 First Date Ideas for When You Want to Keep It Casual

Coffee and drinks are easy, but why stick to what’s easy? Get creative, but not so elaborate that your date thinks you’re madly in love with them and about to propose.

50 Ways to Leave Your (Lesbian) Lover

12. Sometimes Love Doesn’t Win, Quinn

10 Cute Daytime Dates for Spring and Beyond

In defense of daytime dates: they rule.

Like a Little Act of Vengeance: F*cking While Fat

Fuck. While fat. Don’t wait.

Ex Confessions: A Real-World Guide to Sleeping With Your Ex

This is probably not a good idea. BUT! The body wants what it wants and it’s okay for us to make mistakes sometimes and gosh darnit, if we’re going to do this thing we might as well do it as consciously as we can.

A Comprehensive Guide to Your Best Possible Trip to the Sex Toy Shop

So you want to head into your local sex shop and find yourself something new or different. Maybe you want to get a partner or a friend a new friend of their very own! Let’s make this a lovely experience for everyone involved, shall we?

Toys Are for Us: How to Start Using Sex Toys with a Partner

There’s a million reasons to use sex toys with a partner — variety! Adding a new sensation! Creating a different type of intimacy! Acting out a scene you’ve always fantasized about! Curiosity! Adventure! Fun! Accessibility! Playing with a new part of the body! Toys can help you orgasm! Here’s how to get started.

Tell Me What You Want What You Really Really Want: Make a Resolution for Your Sex Life in 2019

If one of your goals is to experience more pleasure, take a new approach to your sex life, or something similar, here are some tips and thoughts about how to craft a new year’s resolution for your sex life that will hopefully help you work toward it.

How to Host the Queer Play Party of Your (Sex) Dreams

Hosting your very own play party can feel like a lot, but with this guide you and your guests all set for a fun, chill and sexy time.

Ready For Your Close-Up: The Beginner’s Guide to Taking a Sexy Solo Video

You’re hot, you know it, and you want someone else to know it too. Be it a partner, a crush, the internet at large, yourself — you name it, you can record yourself and make that happen. But where do you start? What do you want to showcase? What does a sexy video even MEAN, you know?