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af+ Is It So Wrong To Pick Up My Ex-Girlfriend From Jail? Your girlfriend wants you to go no-contact with your ex after you picked her up from jail. Also; is it ok to tell your now-sober partner about the mean things… the team — Sep 26, 2025
af+ Help I Have a Crush On My Ex-Boyfriend’s Sister Should you make a move on an ex-boyfriend’s sister who may or may not be your root? Also — tips on sexting A WRITER. the team — Sep 19, 2025
af+ I’m a Cis Butch Woman, and Boy Do I Want Top Surgery! Can you feel dysphoric about your boobs even if you’re not trans? Also, tips on how to learn to love your body as you come into your queerness. the team — Sep 12, 2025
af+ I Feel Like Leaving When My Sexual Partners Require Me To Come How can you convince your hookups to stop trying to make you have an orgasm? Also, tips on maintaining a writing practice for people with ADHD. the team — Sep 5, 2025
af+ Should We Be Paying Our Friends To Babysit? They’re doing well financially and love your kid — should you still offer money? Also; tips on giving complements to mascs and butches. the team — Aug 29, 2025
af+ I’m 34 and Want Kids. Is It Ethical To Eliminate Older Women From My Dating Pool? What’s the best way to approach dating when you’re looking to co-parent? And is “looking for younger women” one of those ways? the team — Aug 22, 2025
af+ Must I Invite My Homophobic Stepdad To My Homosexual Wedding? He was awful when you came out, but now he wants to COME OUT to your wedding. Also; how to friend an ex without sending mixed signals. the team — Aug 15, 2025
af+ Can’t a Lesbian Enjoy a Little Straight Porn Around Here? Your best friend is shaming you for the kind of porn that gets you off. Also; tips on having more threesomes. the team — Aug 8, 2025
af+ How Do I Talk To My Family About Harry Potter? How do you talk to your family about JK Rowling’s transphobia? And what to do about your poly kinky friend who seems bored by your monogamous life? the team — Aug 1, 2025
af+ Should I Cut My Maternity Leave Short To Help My Coworkers? Your wife thinks your maternity leave plan is “crazy.” Also, how to navigate potential imbalances in a slightly open relationship. the team — Jul 25, 2025
af+ My Roommate’s Nudity Habit Is Weirding Me Out Can you build healthy boundaries without body-shaming an unclothed roommate? Also can you teach a bad kisser to be a good kisser? the team — Jul 18, 2025
