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asexuality

Recent asexuality posts

The image shows the chest and arms of a Black woman wearing a white T-shirt with a graphic of an open cigar box on one side of the chest, a gray watch on one wrist and a simple silver bracelet on the other wrist. She is leaning against another woman, who was wearing a black shirt and jeans. Only one of her hands and her upper legs are visible.

Your Assumptions About Black, Queer Masculinity Are Erasing My Asexual Identity

By Timinepre Cole | April 7, 2022
A person wearing a white sweatshirt, a plaid scarf, a denim jacket and tan corduroy pants holds hands with a person wearing a white shirt, a cream-colored jacket and plaid pants.

Coming to Terms With My Asexuality as a Black, Non-Binary Lesbian

By Ashleigh-Rae Thomas | October 4, 2021
In a hand-drawn image in the colors of greens and dark navy blues, a young Asian person with short hair stares at their own image sitting against a mirror inside of a closet.

How Tam Found Empowerment in the Closet

By Diamond Yao | May 17, 2021
A person in a denim jacket with short, partially shaved hair touches noses with a person in a white shirt with slightly longer hair

You Need Help: How Do I Explore Casual Sex If I’m Demisexual?

By Ro White | April 13, 2021
Dickens is in a one panel comic with a blue and orange background, they are talking to their friend. The friend makes a joke about sex. Dickens nervous laughs over hard on purpose, "in the key of ace"

Foolish Child #93: Asexuality

By Dickens | April 7, 2021
one person with short red, orange and yellow hair rests their nose on the shoulder of another person with longer brown hair, who is smiling with their eyes closed and holding a mug with both hands

How To Negotiate Better Consent: An Asexual Perspective

By Angela Chen | October 30, 2020
Sex Education, Jean to Florence: "Sex doesn't make us whole."

Coming Out Twice: On Being Gay and Asexual in a World Without Representation

By Jessica Vazquez | August 12, 2020

8 Books with Bi or Homoromantic Asexual Women Characters

By Casey | June 15, 2018

You Need Help: When You’re Ace and You Want to Be More Than Friends

By Creatrix Tiara | February 5, 2018
An orange and white cat curled up on a blanket and facing the camera.

Queer Crip Love Fest: Love Sounds Like Purrs

By Carrie | March 30, 2017

Poly Pocket: Gray Ace, Bi & Poly

By Ryan Yates | October 6, 2016

You Need Help: How to Best Be There for Your Newly Out Asexual Friend

By Mey | August 25, 2015
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