Sunday Funday Is Running For Governor and Winning Oscars Like a Boss

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Hello, sugared ginger crystals! I’m here, queer, stressed, and a mess. Just wanted to let you know that having it all is impossible and literally everyone you know is probably slightly a mess and it’s OK. If someone tells you they have it all together all the time, they’re probably a liar and if they’re really not a liar, they’re definitely super boring. Let’s all be garish and beautiful messes together!

Here’s something fun! My upcoming YA book, Girls Resist!: A Guide to Activism, Leadership, and Starting a Revolution has a final cover design and it’s pretty rad!

I made an author page on Facebook last week, which is very weird to me. I mean, I write, but, like, I don’t know, it’s pretty strange to call myself an “author” officially. So that’s cool. I even created a sign-up for a yet-to-exist personal newsletter. So far my only sign-up is my mom, but everyone has to start somewhere! Maybe I should send my mom an obnoxiously personalized newsletter. What do you think?

Queer Women Ready to Run in Governor’s Races

In Texas, former Dallas County Sheriff Lupe Valdez, is advancing in the Texas mayoral primary after securing 42.9% of the vote in a primary with nine total candidates.

Sex and the City star, Cynthia Nixon, is rumored to be considering a run for NY Governor. Nixon is an outspoken advocate for education equity.

Here, Queer and Trans, Etc.

9 SXSW Performers Sound Off on the Importance of LGBTQ Representation in the Music Industry

From Champions to One Day at a Time: Inside TV’s New LGBTQ Generation

Everything Sucks! lesbian star is the teen hero the queer community deserves

The Diner That’s Serving Queer Hospitality, One Patty Melt at a Time. More coverage about MeMe’s Diner!

All Around the World

Phillipines Supreme Court sets oral arguments on same-sex marriage

‘The world is changing’: Iraqi LGBT group takes campaign to streets

LGBT Ugandans Plan First Pride Since Brutal 2016 Crackdown

Berlin’s LGBTQ refugee center a haven for those fleeing civil war, homophobia

Transgender, Queer Candidates Backed in Runs for Colombia’s Senate

Daniela Vega Is Everything

Chile’s Oscar for ‘A Fantastic Woman’ Bolsters Gender Identity Bill

Daniela Vega, the transgender Chilean who conquered Hollywood

‘A Fantastic Woman’ Historic Oscar Win Reignites Gender Identity Bill in Chile

And Finally…

Watch This Tender New Music Video About Queer Teens in a Futuristic Tokyo

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KaeLyn is a 40-year-old hard femme bisexual dino mom. You can typically find her binge-watching TV, standing somewhere with a mic or a sign in her hand, over-caffeinating herself, or just generally doing too many things at once. She lives in Upstate NY with her spouse, a baby T. rex, a scaredy cat, an elderly betta fish, and two rascally rabbits. You can buy her debut book, Girls Resist! A Guide to Activism, Leadership, and Starting a Revolution if you want to, if you feel like it, if that's a thing that interests you or whatever.

KaeLyn has written 230 articles for us.


  1. KaeLyn Your book cover looks amazing! You should be proud!
    Also now you’ve had a child and wrote a book. Have you planted a tree yet?

  2. It’s Colombia, not Columbia. The link text is correct but the preview on the main page has it wrong.

    Also the Advocate article has inaccurate information but whatever.

  3. Thank you for the PSA about perfection and having it all together Kaelyn! I needed that ? Also, CONGRATS ON YOUR BOOK WHAT!!!

    • Haha. I feel like I hijacked the Sunday Funday by sharing the book cover but OH WELL.

      I need to tell myself that PSA at least once a day. We’re all struggling together!

  4. I’m so excited about the existence of your book!!! And I hear you on not being able to have it all.I’m currently reading Grit about passion and perseverance. There is a part about culling some projects to focus on larger goals that is definitely making me think.

    • Thank you! I try to live by the philosophy of doing a few things well instead of a million things haphazardly, but uh…I don’t always succeed.

      Having a kid sure makes it more challenging, doesn’t it? Because it used to just be my own health I was neglecting if I overcommitted. Now it affects someone else who really depends on me. So it’s become both easier to put things down and harder to juggle so many things!

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