Advice for coping with your partner’s internalized fat-phobia, wedding vows, navigating social situations and friendships as an autistic person, and more!

I do not find my obsessions — they find me.

Read essays from our A-Camp 4.0 campers and find out how to apply for or donate to the Campership Fund for 5.0!

“I am an unserious person. And I bring that unseriousness to my work. So I like to think I’m finally figuring out my voice as a filmmaker and it’s gay stupidity. We need more of that.”

Plus updates on NCIS: Hawai’i and Rasika Venkatesa is our new chefbian on Top Chef!

“I was around the same age as young Ellie when ‘Contact’ came out. The way she so clearly carries her childhood self with her made adulthood legible; it made time seem like less of an unknowable straight line and something more like a circle. Watching it as an adult I have that same feeling.”

Our birth story has everything: preclampsia with severe features, catheters, bloody explosions, ginger ale, nurses from heaven, a birthing ball used as a chair and the eventual debut of a really really cute little baby boy.

Building power across the lines of cis and trans teaches me that there are many people who will fight alongside trans people to win a better world.

New York Liberty cinching their first title. An incredible rookie class. Charter flights for players. There was a lot to celebrate in the WNBA this year. There was also a lot to mourn: from how the WNBA handled the Clark/Reese rivalry to saying goodbye to players like Layshia Clarendon and witnessing the firing of coaches like Teresa Weatherspoon.

It’s an incredible time be a queer cinephile. A list of the best queer movies of 2023 is basically just a list of the best movies period.

In 2013, Sue Kerr published her first memorial post for a lost trans life to her blog Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents, which has been running since 2005. More than a decade later, when the mainstream media failed to meaningfully cover the death of Nex Benedict, she once again used her blog as a vital community resource.

To understand the magnitude of Paul Giamatti’s warm, yet thorny performance in The Holdovers, you must go further back into his filmography where the seeds of his on-screen persona were sown.

This Dylan Mulvaney Bud Light story goes back to 1977 and involves Harvey Milk, it’s a wild ride! Also, Reggaeton has a color blindness problem and parasocial relationships are the imaginary friends of adulthood.

It’s hard to believe that after seven years, we’ve really made it to the end of Station 19 (or Maya and Carina!). Plus updates on Grey’s Anatomy, 9-1-1, All American, The Chi, and Pretty Little Liars: Summer School!

“The truth of our history is that gay, lesbian, and gender-expansive people were normal and recognized in the Black community.”

I’m not a doctor or a scientist. What I am is a trans man whose own transition experiences have made me curious about how it all works.

If Desantis and his people are successful in accomplishing their goals, then this will mean further repercussions for the other public institutions in the state — and beyond.

Our community needed a way to share queer history, so we made it happen.

To me, playing a horror game held higher stakes than watching a movie. In many scenarios, you’re literally controlling the character’s moves and choices.

Join the Free Black Women’s Library Challenge, the queer South is a place of radical possibility, and old digital cameras from the 00s are ready for a comeback.