I’m still defining “tomboy femme” style for myself but it gets exponentially harder to find inspiration when all I see is fashion for white, thin bodies. I’m a fat tomboy femme of color and I deserve cute outfits!

Three brides who opted for suits explain how their choice of attire ensured that their wedding was the best day of their lives.

Reading “When Katie Met Cassidy” felt like closing a wound left open by other queer/same-sex romances that came before it.

Plus: Gina Rodriguez on Brooklyn Nine-Nine, what’s gay on Critical Roll, and you should definitely watch Picnic at Hanging Rock.

“Emma’s grief; her inherited, internalized homophobia; and her sexual frustrations — they are all tangled together. And that’s real, because in life how can you tell? Where does one pain stop and another begin? There’s no easy box to check or line to draw.”

“I’m going to make a shirt that says Rachel Is Right or maybe Listen to Rachel.”

The new rules of dating? Don’t be an asshole. Plus: How to explore bisexuality, how to talk about good sex so you can have it, what the Desiree Conference cancellation means for sex workers and more.

I don’t know if you’ve felt it yet, but we certainly have. This is the year where lesbian, bisexual, queer, and trans women of color are taking over your television screens.

Squirting is real, it is possible to have a successful long-distance relationship, Fanny Hill’s unapologetic lust and more.

Here’s how all the (and gay-adjacent) shows fared at last week’s network upfronts.

It’s time for another round of “there’s never been a better time to date a woman”!

It’s the end of the world and our girls have to work together to take down a serpent of a man.

“Internalized homophobia is a bitch, you know?”

“Look, I’m sorry! Every year the concept of pride sounds great in theory and then when it actually rolls around, it’s like New Years Eve on acid.”

This week’s episode was intense, let’s talk about it.

Also: Quiet Ann’s heart is shattered on Claws, Ackley Bridge is a little bit sweet and a little bit scary, Remy and Nova finally broke up on Queen Sugar, and updates on your favorite daytime TV!

Young M.A directed a porn and well, it’s porn!

Here are the queer lady ships that made us/destroyed us; what are yours?

The last round of spring cleaning! Dance like no one’s watching!

It’s Christmas in Purgatory and Waverly and Nicole sure like dressing up for each other! Jingle all the way, if you know what I mean.