“I get inspired to write something and then the horror elements are secondary. So, with Satranic Panic, the very first thing I came up with was just a road trip movie, and then came the idea for a trans drag queen and her best friend killing demons.”

According to my memory, I saw Inception a total of six times in theaters.

“It feels like she’s never going to be fully out and that this is just how the rest of our life together is going to be.”

We told ourselves she was teaching me how to love myself, how to act on my desires. This is what love looks like, we said, and I became adept at anticipating her desires—which I fulfilled, eagerly. She was my audience; I was her secret star.

I love a fucking weirdo narrator — a strange girl who’s always on the outside of things, always looking too closely at everything around her, drawing conclusions nobody wants to hear, perpetually unsure of how to be a human.

In 2013, Sue Kerr published her first memorial post for a lost trans life to her blog Pittsburgh Lesbian Correspondents, which has been running since 2005. More than a decade later, when the mainstream media failed to meaningfully cover the death of Nex Benedict, she once again used her blog as a vital community resource.

It’s hard to believe that after seven years, we’ve really made it to the end of Station 19 (or Maya and Carina!). Plus updates on Grey’s Anatomy, 9-1-1, All American, The Chi, and Pretty Little Liars: Summer School!

Legendary 90s queer rom-com the “The Wedding Banquet” is getting a remake and this one’s gonna be even gayer — with a cast that already includes Lily Gladstone, Bowen Yang and Kelly Marie Tran.

Arizona Robbins is back at Grey Sloan Memorial, but does Grey’s Anatomy do right by the longest running lesbian character on network TV? Also Maya and Carina are still stuck in babyland on Station 19, Clea DuVall was a judge on Top Chef: Wisconsin, and updates on The Equalizer, All American, and more!

Taking stock of what fresh hell of gay teen bullying suicide crisis nightmare heartbreak grief we have woken up into today. There’s some good news and also Ellen, so all in all you should probably read it.

Parvati Shallow — already a gay icon and the winner of Survivor Season 16 — is queer and dating non-binary comedian Mae Martin. AND Survivor Season 41 winner Erika Casupanan came out as a lesbian!

“Thank you for pushing me down a ramp so quickly that I slammed into a wall.”

Meg Stalter remixes “Silk Chiffon” in front of MUNA, Tracy Chapman won a Country Music Award for “Fast Car” 35 years after its first release, and Marlon Wayans loves his trans kid.

What Dream Warriors does is present us with a very real suggestion for how we can move forward, for how we can heal, and for how we can create a new alliance against the violence we see in our society and in the communities we’re a part of.

I’ve changed my mind about wanting kids throughout life, and that’s okay.

It’s so good to see Alice happy!

Plus updates on Survivor, All American, Accused, The Watchful Eye, How I Met Your Father, Gotham Knights, Good Trouble, and A Million Little Things.

An intimate look at the journey to figuring out where you belong

This is not an exhaustive list of butch memoirs, and I would love to hear about more.

If you have family you don’t want to associate with anymore, whatever your reasoning, this guide is for you.