Recovering after being ghosted, dealing with queer tokenism, knowing if you’re a top or a bottom, straight people are STILL not ok, and did that organizer ask you for an organizing coffee or a COFFEE coffee??

Every asexual person has a moment when the recognition sets in. Those moments would come a lot easier if asexuality was more prominent in pop culture.

“I’ve been very precious about getting my hair wet but I would get my hair wet to kiss Gigi in the rain.”

‪There is sufficient evidence, both from Lorraine Hansberry’s own hand and from those with whom she interacted socially, that she was a lesbian. But the how of it all — that we have to piece together in fragments‬.

What to do when your girlfriend keeps talking about breaking up, considering whether to prepare for a life alone, how to move a conversation off of a dating app, discussing bras with your tween daughter, and more!

“I think everyone should make love to a plastic spoon at least once in their lifetime.”

Who snagged top honors at the most important television awards show in the entire world and also in the entire history of the planet?!?!?!?!?!?!

Includes Angelina Jolie two ways, a lot of coming-of-age, and Blake Lively’s 500-piece suit.

Turns out, you and Demi Lovato share the same dream at night. Also: the USWNT are still fighting the patriarchy, bald eagles loves a good thruple, and Stacey Abrams is building a new kind of coalition in the Deep South.

Anne Lister is that dyke.

“And then she told us there was another child — a baby — at a nearby hospital. Were we interested? We said yes even though we had a thousand questions and just as many concerns (why was he in the hospital? Where were his birth parents? Who was holding him when he cried?). That baby turned out to be our son.”

i would also watch an incredible ryan murphy show about this with sarah paulson and jessica lange as the wronged lesbian penguin parents.

If you’ve read this far I think it’s pretty clear that I love a highly competent femme with a lot of personal problems.

Plus updates on: Harley Quinn, How To Get Away with Murder, In the Dark, Motherland: Fort Salem, Tommy, Roswell, The Baker and the Beauty, 911, Top Chef, and Siren.

I’ve had three full-time jobs for this company for 11 years and today I’m taking the triumphant step of knocking that down to two!

Advice for when you want to nurture a partnership but also honor your independence, for when you’re not sure if you want contact with an ex, on working through discomfort with your own sexuality, and more!

Kid’s books with queer characters that deserve your attention, the absurd lie of “pro-choice violence,” fat women onscreen deserve better than crappy love interests, and RIP to Katherine Johnson the G.O.A.T.

You’re as epic as the concept of love and as small as the town of Squahamish. You’re as perfect as a movie can be and as messy as a movie should be. To say it simply, I love you.

Your partner doesn’t want to talk about raising your kids to be anti-racist, longing to reach out to a former friend, and more!

Theres been a lot of hate for “hard pants” lately…