I had to choose between rightfully reveling in my success or succumbing to guilty feelings.

We’re saying goodbye to Maya and Carina on Station 19, Jules and Yasuda build up sexual tension in the Grey’s Anatomy season finale and recaps of All-American, Pretty Little Liars: Summer School, 9-1-1 and Beacon 23.

It’s Valentine’s Day and Miranda’s got a date! Also Aidan Fuckin’ Shaw is back. >:(

Health conditions and disabilities are more than how many views a 20-second clip gets or the number of comments under a post. It’s real-life shit that can affect the core of who somebody is.

Plus updates on Fantasy Island, Good Trouble, The Power, A Million Little Things, All American, and the Niecy Nash and Jessica Betts Wife Show!

Emezi’s ability to immerse the reader into multiple characters’ realities and tell a story that isn’t just one narrative but infinite is reminiscent of Toni Morrison, even as Emezi creates something entirely new in Vivek.

Plus updates on Survivor, All American, Accused, The Watchful Eye, How I Met Your Father, Gotham Knights, Good Trouble, and A Million Little Things.

It definitely made all of us cry.

Nothing lasts, though — not our parents, not our homes, not our relationships, not us.

Even if you’re not going through a divorce right now, here are some very pretty movies to look back at you while you blow snot bubbles into your t-shirt (no one is watching, it’s fine).

“I know, now the thought of sleeping in is just as exciting as a full blown affair to me.”

We’ve got Rachel Weisz as a lesbian obstetrician in a psychosexual thriller! A bisexual daughter in “Tiny Beautiful Things”! Grease: Rise of the Pink Ladies! Maria Bello as a lesbian billionaire in A24’s “Beef” series! And honestly this time… so much more.

Plus! An update on Criminal Minds, and saying goodbye to New Amsterdam.

Also, let’s play a game: UFO or Christmas lights? Plus updates on Megan thee Stallion’s trial against Tory Lanez, getting high on mushrooms with your mom, and how to donate when you don’t have the money.

You can’t control other people’s reactions to your coming out. But you can create for yourself a network of people who unequivocally support your bisexuality/queerness and who understand the specific joys and challenges we face.

Conservatives are going to try to leverage this tragedy to further paint trans people as violent extremists, to try and equate queerness and leftist ideals with domestic terrorism. We cannot let them win.

“Po’Chop asks us to list adjectives we associate with masculinity. I think of men I want to emulate — Stanley Tucci, Mandy Patinkin, my dad. We pace and pose with these adjectives in mind, cheer each other on through acting out these poses. It’s the most I have thought about existing in my body in a long time, and the awkwardness starts to give way to appreciation, and even a bit of confidence.”

Dr. Mary Malone reveals that she’s a lesbian in series finale. It’s a revolutionary change from the books.

There are so many good songs about drinking but none about seltzer, have you noticed that?

Plus updates on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days and Nancy Drew!