Sex-toy hacking is probably overblown. Plus how to be together in a relationship, what makes a good sub and more.

Instagram’s new censorship. Plus sex workers unionizing, porn to save the bees, weed and your sex life and more.

Sometimes you just gotta tie yourself up until you calm yourself down. Plus: a Game of Thrones porn parody, pleasure as resistance, happy birthday to Scarleteen and more.

Staying friends with an ex, to keep a sluttish house, figuring out sex history, what your sex dreams mean and more.

What if you were just yourself? Plus: 19th century sex workers’ rights, tickling torture, why education and testing are the best way to address rising STI rates, and more.

What a BDSM munch is, why keto crotch is rooted in misogyny, how to live with someone you just broke up with and more.

Don’t dry shampoo a vagina, a gender-neutral vibrator, why to schedule sex and more.

You will never get closure, how to relearn how to masturbate as a trans women, golden showers and more.

The history of hotel room porn, how to get comfortable with wearing a strap-on, sex might help you focus and more.

What it means to show up for your partners, cutting the cord with an ex, a few approaches to non-monogamy, an anal anatomy lesson and more.

Scent and skin chemistry, having sex again after a breakup, don’t get back together with your ex and more.

What to do if you want to orgasm less quickly, open your relationship, talk about and address vaginal pain and more.

How to have a good one night stand, the shift to yes means yes, queer erotica and more.

Scheduled sex doesn’t have to be boring. Plus, how to like receiving oral more, a sex ed chatbot, how to have uncomfortable sexual conversations and more.

Nudes! What if we just stopped judging people for having them when everyone does? Also, don’t use bath bombs as dildos.

When you can’t get out of bed until you come, sex in lucid dreams (and how to try it), how the tech industry is afraid of sex toys and more.

Cruising for lesbian hookups, women’s sexual expressions through technology, radical experimental queer porn, deepfakes and more.

Stone femme erotica, public sex without getting caught, and more.

The holidays make people horny, apparently (?). Plus when vulvas taste like vulvas, why exes are a plague this time of year, a cis-trans lesbian couple who found each other in the closet and more.

FOSTA/SESTA are part of why Tumblr is banning sex, opening a closed relationship, why love is not a state of constant enthusiasm and more.