Into the A+ Advice Box #38: Repairing Relationships Can’t Happen Only From One Side

Welcome to the 38th edition of Into the A+ Advice Box, in which we answer all the queer and lesbian advice questions from A+ members who submitted their queries into our A+ ask box! Here, we answer your questions in a space just for A+ members, safe from the general public. (No guarantees regarding your ex, however.) Here, the Autostraddle team’s doling out advice on everything from sex and relationships, to friend and family dynamics, career questions, style, and more! We’re doing this column TWICE a month, now.

AND a Special Announcement: we're trying a new thing where the second Into the A+ Advice Box of each month will be themed. This month's theme is FASHION! Please get your questions in by Monday, July 5, 2021! We'll continue to have a general Into the A+ Advice Box post published on the first Friday of each month.

So, let's dig in!

Q1:
Hi all! I wanted to thank Ro and Vanessa, and give a brief update on a question from A+ Box #32, Q. 3. Now that we're both fully va...

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