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comedy If You Don’t Already Have Your Halloween Couples Costumes Locked In, Are You Even Gay? Lesbians have been Googling couples costume ideas frantically for over a month already. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Aug 13, 2025
health ‘I Feel Incredibly Bad and Guilty After Masturbating’ Feeling bad about masturbation is a remarkably normal thing, especially for people who were immersed (drowned) in shame from the beginning. Summer Tao — Aug 5, 2025
af+ How Do I Talk To My Family About Harry Potter? How do you talk to your family about JK Rowling’s transphobia? And what to do about your poly kinky friend who seems bored by your monogamous life? the team — Aug 1, 2025
af+ Should I Cut My Maternity Leave Short To Help My Coworkers? Your wife thinks your maternity leave plan is “crazy.” Also, how to navigate potential imbalances in a slightly open relationship. the team — Jul 25, 2025
parenting & family A Breastfeeding Journey Of a Thousand Miles Begins With a Single Baby Step “I woke up feeling like someone had run me over with a truck and I thought, “I guess this is motherhood.” And probably would’ve died thinking that.” Riese — Jul 10, 2025
health 4 Unexpected Things That Can Happen to Transfeminine Bodies on Estrogen 1. I’m so much cooler these days. Literally and figuratively. Summer Tao — Jul 3, 2025
af+ Should I Stick It Out at My Christian College? You could graduate debt-free, or you could see what else is out there. Also, we help a nonbinary reader feel more supported in this binary world. the team — Jun 20, 2025
parenting & family Can Immigrant Mothers Heal With Their Queer Kids? These Desi Aunties Are Trying Desi parents get a bad rap in America. Across TV and social media, immigrant aunties are typecast as judgmental or conservative, or else passive victims of circumstance, unable to navigate… Malavika Kannan — Jun 10, 2025
