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first person The Gray Sweatpants That Changed Everything I can be femme and strong and gay and comfortable and hot and relaxed, all embodied in one outfit. Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya — Jan 3, 2025
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first person What If The Girl You Make Out With On New Year’s Eve Becomes Your Wife? “You tell everyone you see that night, including but not limited to all the friends you came with, another friend you run into, a stranger on the street, your dog… Riese — Jan 1, 2025
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first person I Believe We Shouldn’t Own Guns. I’m Learning How To Shoot One Anyway Everyone needs to stop being so flippant about telling queer and trans people to buy guns. Stef Rubino — Nov 21, 2024
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