health 4 Unexpected Things That Can Happen to Transfeminine Bodies on Estrogen Summer Tao Jul 3, 2025
health 4 Unexpected Things That Can Happen to Transfeminine Bodies on Estrogen Summer Tao Jul 3, 2025
dating ‘I Want a T4T Relationship but Worry About Chaser Behavior’ So, shame about sexuality. Lots of us have some. Some of us have lots. Summer Tao — Oct 1, 2024
relationships What Are Mixed Orientation Relationships? And what can we learn from dating people with sexual orientations different from our own? Summer Tao — Sep 20, 2024
gender ‘I Identified As Non-Binary for Years but I Think I’m Cis’ Gender exploration is for everyone, regardless of starting point or expectations. Summer Tao — Sep 17, 2024
sex I Asked the Women Who Follow Me on Instagram if They’d Like To Receive Nudes. Here’s What Happened This started as an exercise in self-love and turned into an exercise in personal connection. Summer Tao — Sep 10, 2024
dating ‘How Do I Date When I’m Attracted to Hardly Anyone?’ “I’ve been out and queer for a long time now, and I get quite a bit of attention from people. I have a lot of self-confidence and if I’m into… Summer Tao — Aug 20, 2024
relationships ‘I’m Married, My Ex Just Said She’s in Love With Me, and I Don’t Know What To Do’ “I’ve done a lot of processing, but I am super confused. I don’t know what feelings are memories from the past and what is today.” Summer Tao — Aug 13, 2024
health Why We Shouldn’t Be Overly Dismissive of Self-Diagnosis The healthcare system has a longstanding reputation for mistreating queer people, and self-diagnosis can provide agency even with its shortcomings. Summer Tao — Aug 1, 2024
sex How To Reframe Masturbation As ‘Solo Sex’ Like all sex acts, masturbation isn’t just about sex. Summer Tao — Jul 31, 2024
sex ‘I Only Want To Top During Sex and My Partner Is Taking It Personally’ “I recently mentioned to my partner that I want to have a (temporary) break from receiving during sex in order to give myself space to be with my body fully,… Summer Tao — Jul 23, 2024
relationships ‘My Wife Is in the Early Stages of Transitioning, and I Feel Weird About Keeping Her Identity a Secret’ “It feels like she’s never going to be fully out and that this is just how the rest of our life together is going to be.” Summer Tao — Jul 16, 2024
health What Comes After Surviving Suicidality? What I’ve found to be near-universally helpful is talking to people about it. Summer Tao — Jun 20, 2024
lgbt book reviews ‘Why Are People Into That?’ Asks Incisive Questions About Kink Tina Horn’s new book will challenge some of your problematic notions no matter how confident you are in your sex positivity. Summer Tao — Jun 19, 2024