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The 12 Gayest Moments in Carly Rae Jepsen’s Extremely Gay “Boy Problems” Video

This music video is so gay Ali Liebert is playing it in the movie version. It’s so gay it’s legal to discriminate against it in Mississippi and North Carolina. It’s so gay the CW is planning on killing it off next week.

By Mey| April 11, 2016 | 53 Comments
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Tavi Gevinson Will Play Haddie’s Girlfriend on “Parenthood,” Continues To Do All The Things

“From the preview, we just know that Haddie’s coming home for a visit, she brought Lauren with her, there’s something that she’s not ready to tell her family, and she and Lauren like to kiss.”

By Mey| April 15, 2014 | 24 Comments
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Read All Of The Books: The Fall 2013 Queer Books Preview

The 50 most essential queer books coming this fall.

By Carolyn Yates| August 21, 2013 | 40 Comments
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