sex View From The Top: Where I’m Going I feel lighter than I’ve been in a year. I feel ecstatic with the possibilities. I feel giddy, like I’m falling in love. Sinclair Sexsmith — Apr 25, 2017
sex Bottoms Up: I Am Enough I get it now. Hot toppy girls will like me just as I am or they won’t get to like me at all. I am good enough. Ari — Apr 18, 2017
sex View From The Top: Where I’ve Been Before any of my other sexuality identities, I was kinky. Sinclair Sexsmith — Apr 11, 2017
identity Being Kinky Doesn’t Make You Queer I’m queer, and I’m kinky. But being kinky doesn’t make me queer. Kink is not a sexual orientation. Ryan Yates — Apr 5, 2017
sex Bottoms Up: Earn It It’s not that I don’t want to submit, it’s that submitting is so different from how I have to conduct my life that it takes effort to turn off that… Ari — Apr 4, 2017
sex View From The Top: A Short History of What I Learned From Dating I wish someone had told me sooner that I had been seeking mastery all this time, but I wouldn’t have been ready to hear it. Until r came along. Sinclair Sexsmith — Mar 28, 2017
sex Bottoms Up: Used “When I’m being used for sex, I feel like a vessel through which pleasure flows, hot and bursting.” Ari — Mar 21, 2017
sex View From The Top: Topping While Butch It took me years to settle into the idea that masculinity and topping were actually, authentically my identities. Sinclair Sexsmith — Mar 14, 2017
sex Bottoms Up: You Are Not My Dom Somehow, self-identifying as a submissive makes some potential doms think I am their sub. Ari — Mar 7, 2017
sex Bottoms Up: About Last Night “I guess I had a lot of opinions that night because you told me that I was especially chatty. I told you it was because you weren’t giving me anything… Ari — Feb 21, 2017
sex A Balance In Subspace Sometimes, being in kinky subspace opens old wounds from an abusive relationship — but sometimes, it can give you the power to close them. Guest — Feb 15, 2017
sex View From The Top: The Thing About Sadism I want to break things — holes, walls, people. I want to feel the begging in my pelvis and let it ignite the fire under me to burn bright up… Sinclair Sexsmith — Feb 14, 2017
