This tradition, which literally translates to “sending of portions,” involves creating care packages of food and drink to send to loved ones.

Whether she’s writing about Gantt charts or economic turmoil or oysters or blue and green or sex or hunger, Sarah Thankam Mathews’ sentences seduce and swathe.

“I think the fewer examples there are of fat people or people writing about fatness, the more we expect from individuals, when fatphobia is a systemic problem. What I really want to see is just all of the stories.”

How do I get my parents to see that neutrality in this situation feels like they’re rejecting me too?

Plus updates on Nancy Drew, Legacies, Home Economics, and Top Chef!

When I first saw the Yellowjackets pilot, I was so sure there was something going on between Shauna and Jackie.

If you’re wondering what some queer people who aren’t me are thinking about when it comes to getting engaged and wedding planning (or not wedding planning), this installment of Blush and Bashful is for you.

Traveling while queer / trans and pregnant, PDA at Disney, tick checks…and more!

Even if her attraction to Veronica is mostly relegated to fantasies, that doesn’t make it not “real.”

Plus updates on All American, Survivor, Fantasy Island, The Power, and A Million Little Things.

Your friend’s art is not great, but they keep asking you to share it on social. Also, a reader is feeling a little too embodied after having a baby.

On specific language, families, mispronunciations, and revisiting Jhumpa Lahiri’s “The Namesake.”

Who walks away engaged? Who is going no contact with their trial partners? Who is breaking up?

Tommi Parrish’s stunning new graphic novel Men I Trust is about two lonely women. It appears to be the story of their connection, but as it unravels it becomes darker, deeper, and, ultimately, in its own way, more hopeful.

“And here we thought the spruce syrup was just a tasty treat!”

To get into even more detail, Alex was supposed to have a relationship with Stevie (that’s Lesbian Jesus Hayley Kiyoko to you). Also: Papayas are standing in the gap of abortion trainings for med students.

I had to choose between rightfully reveling in my success or succumbing to guilty feelings.

We’ve got data and timelines and infographics and conversation on topics including: white actors getting Oscars for playing people of color, white savior narratives, actors of color who actually did get nominated or win Oscars for Acting and so much more. Just updated for 2023.

Health conditions and disabilities are more than how many views a 20-second clip gets or the number of comments under a post. It’s real-life shit that can affect the core of who somebody is.

It’s Valentine’s Day and Miranda’s got a date! Also Aidan Fuckin’ Shaw is back. >:(