I Hate That I Want My Girlfriend To Stop Posting Sexy Pics Of Herself On Social Media

My girlfriend's sexy finsta and visible nipples are now bothering me, which also bothers me!


My girlfriend is very body positive and sex positive and I love that for her. But I also feel uncomfortable with some of it.

Like, she has very dark nipples and often wears completely see-through shirts without a bra. Not just to queer parties or at night, but out to breakfast or to the park. She’s had a sexy ‘finsta’ for a while and I follow it and when we were first dating, I obviously liked what I saw on it. But I thought she’d stop when we became exclusive a few months ago. At first she did but then she posted a sexy pic on it last week and I felt immediately awful.

We got into a fight about it. It’s just her friends who fo...

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