health 4 Unexpected Things That Can Happen to Transfeminine Bodies on Estrogen Summer Tao Jul 3, 2025
health 4 Unexpected Things That Can Happen to Transfeminine Bodies on Estrogen Summer Tao Jul 3, 2025
first person Cheers to the Birthday I Didn’t Think I’d Reach I turned 30 last month. It was my first birthday in recent memory I actually planned for. Summer Tao — Oct 30, 2024
dating ‘The Girl I’m Vibing With Thinks I’m Still Into My Ex’ Queer relationships often don’t take the shape or trajectory of cis-heterosexual ones. Summer Tao — Oct 8, 2024
dating ‘I Want a T4T Relationship but Worry About Chaser Behavior’ So, shame about sexuality. Lots of us have some. Some of us have lots. Summer Tao — Oct 1, 2024
relationships What Are Mixed Orientation Relationships? And what can we learn from dating people with sexual orientations different from our own? Summer Tao — Sep 20, 2024
gender ‘I Identified As Non-Binary for Years but I Think I’m Cis’ Gender exploration is for everyone, regardless of starting point or expectations. Summer Tao — Sep 17, 2024
sex I Asked the Women Who Follow Me on Instagram if They’d Like To Receive Nudes. Here’s What Happened This started as an exercise in self-love and turned into an exercise in personal connection. Summer Tao — Sep 10, 2024
dating ‘How Do I Date When I’m Attracted to Hardly Anyone?’ “I’ve been out and queer for a long time now, and I get quite a bit of attention from people. I have a lot of self-confidence and if I’m into… Summer Tao — Aug 20, 2024
relationships ‘I’m Married, My Ex Just Said She’s in Love With Me, and I Don’t Know What To Do’ “I’ve done a lot of processing, but I am super confused. I don’t know what feelings are memories from the past and what is today.” Summer Tao — Aug 13, 2024
health Why We Shouldn’t Be Overly Dismissive of Self-Diagnosis The healthcare system has a longstanding reputation for mistreating queer people, and self-diagnosis can provide agency even with its shortcomings. Summer Tao — Aug 1, 2024
sex How To Reframe Masturbation As ‘Solo Sex’ Like all sex acts, masturbation isn’t just about sex. Summer Tao — Jul 31, 2024
sex ‘I Only Want To Top During Sex and My Partner Is Taking It Personally’ “I recently mentioned to my partner that I want to have a (temporary) break from receiving during sex in order to give myself space to be with my body fully,… Summer Tao — Jul 23, 2024
relationships ‘My Wife Is in the Early Stages of Transitioning, and I Feel Weird About Keeping Her Identity a Secret’ “It feels like she’s never going to be fully out and that this is just how the rest of our life together is going to be.” Summer Tao — Jul 16, 2024