The Basics




cleveland, ohio

About Me

About Me

i used to drink champagne out of coffee mugs,
listen to rap music on vinyl,
& show up like money on the sidewalk.

now i drink endless hot toddys,
listen to tedtalks on netflix,
& delete my okcupid profile every time i fall in love.

Check All That Apply

Queer, Pansexual


be good, be kind, be romantic, be hopeful.



Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status



puns, realtalk, making mix tapes


winning the lotto, 90s jams, feelings

Are You Out To Your....


What I Like

Favorite Books

jonathan livingston seagull, you shall know our velocity, the ballad of sexual dependency, extremely loud & incredibly close, crush, self-help, lunch poems, birds of america, the year of magical thinking, the last night of the earth poems, perks of being a wallflower

Favorite Queer Books

the ballad of sexual dependency, i am not myself these days, perks of being a wallflower

Favorite Movies

edward scissorhands, bottle rocket, almost famous, moonrise kingdom, amelie, grey gardens, beginners, labyrinth, lost in translation, shortbus, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, the royal tenenbaums, lars & the real girl, whip it

Favorite Documentaries

beautiful losers, exit through the gift shop, grey gardens

Favorite TV Shows

arrested development, girls, the office, parks & recreation, freaks & geeks, buffy the vampire slayer, shameless, dexter, law & order: sex crimes, ted talks

Favorite Music

david bowie, beach house, grimes, elliott smith, the ramones, nico & the velvet underground, the national, fleetwood mac, of montreal, bone thugs-n-harmony, daft punk, interpol, beirut, explosions in the sky, the rolling stones, the weeknd, mos def, the xx, why?, fleet foxes, the smiths, yeah yeah yeahs, new order, ac/dc, metallica, black sabbath, britney spears, beyonce, solange, miguel, the hood internet, japandroids, le1f, mykki blanco, tears for fears, thee oh sees, the strokes, fugees, spank rock, robyn

Favorite Sandwich

variations on grilled cheese

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

cute broads

Favorite Quotes

“my goal is to always come from a place of love, but sometimes you just have to break it down for a motherfucker.”

Favorite Thing on

all the intelligent females~

Favorite Writers

joan didion, dave eggers, david foster wallace, lorrie moore, frank o’hara, jonathan safran foer, richard siken