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Cape Town, South Africa

About Me

About Me

A huge homo (literally, I’m quite tall) with a weakness for dresses and beautiful,unusual things. Studying Art History and English literature, and will bore (or interest) you with those things on end – preferably over a beer/wine/gin/whiskey. I have also reached It probably goes without saying that I’m also a big fan of cats, soccer and working in my garden.

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Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With, A Girlfriend, Business Contacts

Relationship Status



Caring, curious, stylish, well read, affectionate, able to cook several dishes with efficiency, and generally able to get into my jimjams after a night out, no matter how drunken ( I always felt that was impressive)


terrible at beatboxing and look really stupid trying to do any other dance than 'grinding', clumsy, sensitive

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What I Like

Favorite Books

Ima be for real, pretty much anything by Haruki Murakami I’m down with. ( I know he writes about cats ‘n shit pretty much every time, but I’m cool with that) . So, Sputnik Sweetheart, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Tropic of Cancer, On the Road, Never Let Me Go, Norwegian Wood, 100 Years of Solitude,Laughable Loves, The Book of Laughter and Forgetting,Love in the Time of Cholera, The Wind-up Bird Chronicles

Favorite Queer Books

Sputnik Sweetheart I guess.

Favorite TV Shows

Pretty much any National Geographic stuff.
Pretty much any animal planet thing. Especially animal attacks. Animals getting all up in people’s grills.
Black Books, It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, The Killing (Danish original) , The X-files, Mad Men (Joan ;) , Battlestar Galactica,Twin Peaks, the Inbetweeners,Community, Misfits, Pushing Daisies

Favorite Writers

Haruki Murakami, Milan Kundera,Jack Kerouac, Kazou Ishiguru, Gabriel Garcia Marquez,