Currently struggling through the ‘realizing-coming-out-to-self’ stage, “later in life” (22 gasp!) in a very small town with no one I yet feel comfortable confiding in (here) – Autostraddle keeps me going – – hoping to make some queer friends and confidants (until I move to where I can meet some in person :) ie. a city with a population over 5000 and at least one mall, one bar, and maybe even one gay bar! )