The Basics





About Me

About Me

i like to set goals for myself, and then abandon them. recklessly.

Check All That Apply








Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status

In a Relationship


Responsibility & attention to self.


Picking my cuticles. Lip balm application/hoarding.

Are You Out To Your....

Member(s) of Immediate Family, Members(s) of Extended Family, All Friends, School/Work

What I Like

Favorite Books

Written on the Body, Valencia, Middlesex, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, Carry Me Like Water, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Pages For You, Gut Symmetries, The Four Agreements, The Good People of New York, Kissing in Manhattan, And the Heart Says Whatever, Out of the Girls’ Room and Into the Night, To Kill a Mockingbird, Dangerous Angels

Favorite Queer Books

Lynn Galli, Gerri Hill, JD Glass, Kate Christie, Georgia Beers, Jeanette Winterson

Favorite Movies

Dogma, Secretary, Dan in Real Life, The Village, Imagine Me & You, Eternal Sunshine, Big Fish, The Reader, Empire, Mean Girls, Best in Show, Laurel Canyon

Favorite Documentaries

Food, Inc.

Favorite TV Shows

Law & Order SVU, The Shield, NCIS, American Dad, Family Guy

Favorite Music

Brandi Carlile, Rose Cousins, Melissa Ferrick, Ani D, Girlyman, Chris Pureka, Indigo Girls, Temper Trap, Adrianne, Missy Higgins, Garrison Starr, Alex Parks, Everything But the Girl, Florence + The Machine, Cowboy Junkies, CCR, David Gray, Ray LaMontagne, Greg Laswell, OAR, John Butler Trio, Mumford and Sons, K’s Choice, Massive Attack, Over the Rhine, Rachael Cantu, Rachael Sage, Sara Bareilles, Catherine Feeny, Catherine MacLellan, Ben Harper, Snow Patrol, Holly Conlan, Metric

Favorite Sandwich

Grilled cheese. Preferably with Hooters wing sauce for dipping.

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

my bike.

Favorite Writers

Jeanette Winterson, Margaret Atwood, Adrienne Rich, Michelle Tea, Dave Eggers, Lorrie Moore, Jack Gantos, Alison Bechdel, Christopher Moore, Sherman Alexie, Tao Lin, Emily Gould, Thisbe Nissen, David Levithan