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Martinsville, IN

About Me

About Me

I am librarian, witch, and queer poly- fidelitous ciswoman living in Smalltown, USA. (Indiana) with my wife, our kids, her aging parents, and our boyfriend. This is what the modern family looks like, people.

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Bisexual, Queer


Thelemic Pagan




Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet

Relationship Status

In a Relationship, Domestically Partnered

Are You Out To Your....

Member(s) of Immediate Family, Close Friends, All Friends, School/Work

What I Like

Favorite Books

Promethea, The Mists of Avalon, Jitterbug Perfume, Liber AL vel Legis, The Principia Discordia, Haunt Me Still, Daughters of the Witching Hill, Prometheus Rising

Favorite Queer Books

Even Cowgirls Get the Blues, The Lost Girls, Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe, Temple of Love (written by my wife!!!)

Favorite Movies

Hedwig and the Angry Inch, The Fountain, Legend of the Guardians: The Owls of Ga’Hoole, Victor Victoria, Practical Magic, The Mists of Avalon, The Boondock Saints, The Serpent and the Rainbow, V For Vendetta, Moulin Rouge, The Lion in Winter, Agora, The Labyrinth, Flight of Dragons, Chicago, The Princess Bride, The Wizard of Oz, Evita, The Wicker Man (1973), Gone with the Wind

Favorite TV Shows

Glee, The Rachel Maddow Show, True Blood, Buffy The Vampire Slayer

Favorite Music

Loreena McKennitt, Showtunes, Stevie Nicks, Queen, Inkubus Sukkubus, P!nk, Sophie B. Hawkins, Madonna, Sarah Brightman, Richard Cheese, Tori Amos, Lady Gaga, The Cure

Favorite Sandwich

Honey ham & swiss on whole grain with a touch of Miracle Whip.

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

My wife. :D

Favorite Quotes


“the law of the strong:
this is our law and the joy of the world.” -AL. II. 2

“Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law.” -AL. I. 40

“thou hast no right but to do thy will. Do that, and no other shall say nay.” -AL. I. 42-3

“Every man and every woman is a star.” -AL. I. 3

There is no god but man.

1. Man has the right to live by his own law–
to live in the way that he wills to do:
to work as he will:
to play as he will:
to rest as he will:
to die when and how he will.
2. Man has the right to eat what he will:
to drink what he will:
to dwell where he will:
to move as he will on the face of the earth.
3. Man has the right to think what he will:
to speak what he will:
to write what he will:
to draw, paint, carve, etch, mould, build as he will:
to dress as he will.
4. Man has the right to love as he will:–
“take your fill and will of love as ye will,
when, where, and with whom ye will.” -AL. I. 51
5. Man has the right to kill those who would thwart these rights.
“the slaves shall serve.” -AL. II. 58

“Love is the law, love under will.” -AL. I. 57

Favorite Thing on

Glee stalking.

Favorite Writers

Aliester Crowley, Alan Moore, Sappho, Starhawk, Anita Diamant, Tom Robbins, Doreen Valiente, SARK, Z Budapest