The Basics





About Me

About Me

I’m tall and weird. I love music, movies, words, and nature. oh and women of course.

Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Bisexual, Pansexual, Sexually Fluid, Femme


animism buddhism existentialism biopsychoanthrosociology


Looking For

Queer Friends in my Area, Queer Friends on the Internet, Queer Friends to Make Out With, A Girlfriend

Relationship Status



honesty, compassion, understanding, love, humility, strength, laughter.


cigarettes, cursing, flirting, kissing, alcohol, friends, keeping myself at a distance

Are You Out To Your....

Member(s) of Immediate Family, All Friends, School/Work, Everybody

What I Like

Favorite Books

The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo, the Girl Who Played With Fire, the Great Gatsby, 1984, Animal Farm, No Exit, To Kill a Mockingbird, Lord of the Flies, Ishmael, My Ishmael, the Story of B, The Perks of Being a Wall Flower…also too many.

Favorite Movies

waayyyy too many: Crash, American History X, Up, Superbad, Donnie Darko , 28 Days/Weeks Later, Shaun of the Dead, just to name a few.

Favorite Documentaries

god too many. how about Unmistaken Child, or Restrepo, or Invisible Children?

Favorite TV Shows

Family Guy, King of the Hill, anything Discovery, Animal Planet, History, or Science Channel, Robot Chicken, Dexter, Squidbillies, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Bored to Death, Curb Your Enthusiasm, The Daily Show, the Colbert Report, South Park, Ugly Americans, Chelsea Lately, Law and Order: SVU, The L Word, Skins, Invader Zim, The Real L Word, Planet Earth, Futurama, It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Archer, Spongebob Squarepants, Deep Blue.

Favorite Music

Brand New, Cursive, Tegan and Sara, Austra, Neon Hitch, Pendulum, Karkwa, Band of Horses, Eye Alaska, There for Tomorrow, Anberlin, Pinback, Judgement Day, Beck, Wiz Kalifa, Rihanna, MUTEMATH, Mew, Mumford & Sons, Cake, Bright Eyes, Vampire Weekend, the Architects, BRAIDS, the Floozies, Mouth, Death Cab for Cutie, Metric, The Postal Service, AFI, Incubus, Taking Back Sunday, Grand Child, Iron & Wine, Sublime, Pink Floyd, blah blah blah 12000+ songs on my iTunes.

Favorite Sandwich

grilled cheese, pb&j, anything I concoct!

Favorite Thing to Autostraddle

sexy ladies

Favorite Quotes

“Has anything you’ve done made your life better?”
American History X

“Hate is baggage. Life’s too short to be pissed off all the time.”
American History X

“You must be the change you wish to see in the world.”
Mahatma Ghandi

“One must still have chaos in oneself to be able to give birth to a dancing star.”
Friedrich Nietzsche

“Passion has little to do with euphoria and everything to do with patience. It is not about feeling good. It is about endurance. Like patience, passion comes from the same Latin root: ‘pati.’ It does not mean to flow with exuberance. It means to suffer.”
Mark Z. Danielewski

“Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.”
Martin Luther King, Jr.

“People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they’re not on your road doesn’t mean they’ve gotten lost.”
H. Jackson Brown

“Our wretched species is so made that those who walk on the well-trodden path always throw stones at those who are showing a new road.”

“Men really need sea-monsters in their personal oceans…An ocean without its unnamed monsters would be like a dreamless sleep.”
John Steinbeck

“Men can only be happy when they do not assume that the object of life is happiness.”
George Orwell

“If you want something you’ve never had, you have to do something you’ve never done.”
James Amps III

“There are things I can’t force. I must admit there are times when the greatest change needed is a change of my viewpoint.”

“Some people live for rules, I live for exceptions.”

“Words create lies. Pain can be trusted.”
Takashi Miike

“Too much perfection is a mistake.”
Alejandro Jodorowsky

“Language bearers, photographers, diary makers; you with your memory are dead, frozen, lost in a present that never stops passing. Here lives the incantation of matter: a language forever like a flame burning away the darkness. Life is flesh on bone convulsing above the ground.”

“A film is an illusion, not a reality-fiction or a happening: it is a true work of fiction.”
L’Anatomie de l’Enfer

“There is some fiction in your truth, and some truth in your fiction.”
The Animatrix

“It is invariably saddening to look through new eyes at things upon which you have expended your own powers of adjustment.”
The Great Gatsby

“In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life: it goes on.”
Robert Frost

“The rush of battle is often a potent and lethal addiction, for war is a drug.”
Chris Hedges

“If nothing else, it’s life. It’s real, and sometimes it fucking hurts, but it’s sort of all we have.”
Garden State

“Knowing others is wisdom, knowing yourself is Enlightenment.”
Lao Tzu

“I believe that consciousness creates the illusion of individuation, the false feeling of being separate. In other words, I am aware, ergo I am alone. I further believe that this existential misunderstanding is the prime motivating force for the neurotic compulsion to blot out consciousness. This explains the paradox of our culture, which celebrates the ego while simultaneously promoting its evisceration with drugs and alcohol. It also clarifies our deep-seated fear of monolithic, one-minded systems like communism, religious fundamentalism, zombies and invaders from Mars. Each one is a dark echo of an oceanic state of unifying transcendence from which consciousness must, by nature, flee. The Fall from Grace is, in fact, a Sprint from Grace. Or perhaps more accurately, ‘Screw Grace, I am so outta here!'”
Chuck Lorre

“The best way to get over a woman is to turn her into literature.”
Henry Miller

“I’m in a gang.” Me
“Okay have fun.” Dad

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Favorite Writers

F. Scott Fitzgerald, Mark Z. Danielewski, Edgar Allen Poe, Jorge Luis Borges, Voltaire, Karl Marx, Friedrich Nietzsche, Sigmund Freud, Truman Capote, George Orwell, Stieg Larson, Daniel Quinn…too many.