33 yr old who has only been w/ men and hasn’t even kissed a woman. I can remember being romantically & sexually attracted to girls at 6 years old. I have “come out” 3 times in life to various people including my mother, friends, and a gay male therapist who told me it was a phase and “you don’t seem gay so you can’t be”. I guess they had me convinced but after years of unhappiness and feeling like I was pretending to be someone else I decided to stop denying my feelings and learn to love who I am regardless of “what” I am.